Officially losing hope now.
Went through the full SH4 fresh installation thread step by step. Reinstalled sh4 Gold to c:\SH4 and ran it on a clean install. I thought it could have been an overheating problem so cranked up the watercooling to full. Was going fine and when i decided i tested it enough i clicked exit to window and there it was once again.. "this program has stopped working correctly, windows will now exit". Maybe this time it was just some freak error since it happened when i clicked to exit myself, so i will try install TMO and try one last time. So frustrating