So use Wamphyri's Plane Mod. Planes will attack you now. Or just quit as you seem to be looking for an excuse to do that.
Mods fix 90% of what's wrong with the game. If you're still focusing on the remaining 10% (or not using mods since you have a warped idea that Ubisoft should have shipped a fully modded simulator), then quit. Seriously, you'll
never be happy.