[Sledgehammer427]

Frei I know how you feel, I have moved on from the relationships I'm about to mention (and I'm now dating a girl I'm absolutely in love with...) so maybe I can offer a few well wishes and sympathy.

I dated this girl once (for 9 months)...and she dumped me for a guy she barely knew, it didn't help that the situation was already strained by road construction and the lateness getting to the local rock concert going on that we planned to attend, but I did what I could and she left me.
I didn't eat for three days, and I lived on Dr. Who and Top Gear reruns (british television cures the american's broken heart...odd) Of course, I went to my mother's in CT and there I started talking to the next girl I was to date...and be crushed by.
That one and I went for...a year and...two months? something like that. anyways, she left me for a guy she barely knew but at least it was because I wasn't paying the bills (apparently I'm the wiser because she was rather foolish getting an apartment, no matter how well your temp job pays)
But this time I turned to my friends and, even though I had alienated from them (I never really had that many girls to date, I try to always be there for the girl I'm with) they accepted me back, so I became their taxi driver and I moved on, during this breakup process I started talking to a girl I knew liked me, but I was always dating some other girl to date her, and I asked her out, we've been dating for 6 months and she and I are like this -crosses fingers-

Frei, although you (and a [large] majority of the members here) are older than I all I can say is that from my experience it never helps to dwell in the past, you never know when you might miss a wonderful future!