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Freiwillige · 05-11-10, 10:23 PM

Well we are kind of in a holding pattern at this point. She acts one way and says another. I am strong enough to let her go that is definitely not the issue.
She is very open about what happened to lead up to that event. He pursued her aggressively all the while playing the caring nice guy role. Not to say that she is not without fault cause in my book I am dating her not him so she bears 100% of my blame. The trust issue is the hardest part of this because before that night she had more trust than any woman ever and she worked hard to earn that trust. She was never deceitful or sneaky and in fact that what got her caught was her poor deception skills. She should have known that I would have figured it out and quick.

I asked her what if I told you to come home during our text conversation. She said that she would have. I do believe her. She was not intoxicated and had 3 beers over the space of 10:20 P.M. and 12:40 A.M. which he so kindly bought her.

She is very open about the events and didn't even try to deny that Sex was what they were leading into before I came crashing into their party.

But like I said the trust is destroyed. Now I am wondering if she's Really at work tonight? Are they texting each other all night?

I talked to her last night while she was at work and she did admit that she had talked to him. She said he wanted to know what happened after I showed up and he left.

She says that she's unhappy with our economic situation (I am currently unemployed) while she is working. But that's not to say that I do not bring in money and at times I bring in more than her working on cars or doing odd jobs on Craigslist. But I can understand her worry about a steady paycheck vs Lots of money followed by no money.

Anyways I digress. The point is that I do love her but I don't trust her.
I am willing to work things out but it takes two to tango. The balls in her court.

The last issue I have and this could be the ball buster is this guy. I have zero idea what his intent is. Is he done or is the challenge making him want to chase after her harder. I don't know where she is at on him either.
But I will get it resolved quickly because if I feel that she is still being deceitful he can have her.

05-11-10, 10:23 PM	#14
Freiwillige The Old Man Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Phx. Az Posts: 1,458 Downloads: 24 Uploads: 0	Well we are kind of in a holding pattern at this point. She acts one way and says another. I am strong enough to let her go that is definitely not the issue. She is very open about what happened to lead up to that event. He pursued her aggressively all the while playing the caring nice guy role. Not to say that she is not without fault cause in my book I am dating her not him so she bears 100% of my blame. The trust issue is the hardest part of this because before that night she had more trust than any woman ever and she worked hard to earn that trust. She was never deceitful or sneaky and in fact that what got her caught was her poor deception skills. She should have known that I would have figured it out and quick. I asked her what if I told you to come home during our text conversation. She said that she would have. I do believe her. She was not intoxicated and had 3 beers over the space of 10:20 P.M. and 12:40 A.M. which he so kindly bought her. She is very open about the events and didn't even try to deny that Sex was what they were leading into before I came crashing into their party. But like I said the trust is destroyed. Now I am wondering if she's Really at work tonight? Are they texting each other all night? I talked to her last night while she was at work and she did admit that she had talked to him. She said he wanted to know what happened after I showed up and he left. She says that she's unhappy with our economic situation (I am currently unemployed) while she is working. But that's not to say that I do not bring in money and at times I bring in more than her working on cars or doing odd jobs on Craigslist. But I can understand her worry about a steady paycheck vs Lots of money followed by no money. Anyways I digress. The point is that I do love her but I don't trust her. I am willing to work things out but it takes two to tango. The balls in her court. The last issue I have and this could be the ball buster is this guy. I have zero idea what his intent is. Is he done or is the challenge making him want to chase after her harder. I don't know where she is at on him either. But I will get it resolved quickly because if I feel that she is still being deceitful he can have her.