My heart goes out to you, man, I've been there and I know how gutted you must feel.
You'll have to do what you feel is right of course and no one can decide that but you... but my two cents, FWIW - someone who admits they don't know what they want, needs to go figure that out on their own time and in their own space and not use a relationship that they can't or won't commit to as a safety net to avoid doing so.
In my experience people who can't make up their minds about being in a committed relationship will usually continue not making up their minds about it as long as they think they can have it both ways.
Anyway - good luck to you with whatever you decide to do.
{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}
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