[CaptainHaplo]

If we really wanted to get into it - its not the government's place to regulate marriage anyway in my view. After all - marriage is a civil contract between two people - and before their chosen deity if they so desire. Neither is the concern of the government one bit.

However, - I don't disagree with leveling the playing field. However - a gay or lesbian couple can get married - if they want to go where its legal. Just as a unmarried straight couple can choose NOT to marry. Each is a choice by the individuals involved. If either one chooses not to take the steps necessary to be married in the eyes of the government - they have legal options to insure their wishes are honored. That isn't discriminatory - it applies equally to unmarried couples regardless of sexuality.

I don't have an issue with doing this - I have an issue with doing it only for specificed subgroups based on sexuality choice - while leaving others out in the cold.

This is just like the issues of providing health insurance for gay and lesbian couples. I don't have a problem with it - but if your going to do it - then you need to also offer the same to unmarried heterosexual couples. Otherwise your offering one group - based on their sexuality - on thing - while not offering another group in the same circumstance the same thing. That is the definition of discrimination based on sexual preference.

The fact is there are legitimate reasons some heterosexual couples do not marry - yet they are penalized still... when others are not.