Welcome to the disease that is sim racing.
I have been racing online with rFactor for 4 years now, and its still as fun as it was in the beginning. I dont race in public servers though, as the racing there is usually bad. Crashing and people driving the wrong way, etc. In a league you get judges handing out penalties for (avoidable) accidents, points scoring and above all really close racing regardless of skill level.
Here is a clip where I battle for 2nd in a Porsche Cup race along with 28 other drivers.
We set a new record in our league a few weeks ago with 30 cars at Imola.
Btw, I see you are swedish, check out rln.no. Swedes, Norwegians and Danes racing against each other.
