Ok, the first person you come up with a nice mod that stops the crew from looking radioactive everytime the mouse pointer nears them, with a cursor change, will win a nice warm Subsim Sweater.
Just make the glow go away

When I move my mouse pointer over a clickable object, the pointer will change to something, a little fist or leather glove or something.
Preferably, the ALT key will still light up all clickable objects and crew... if that can be done.
thanks!