Might have found a solution, of course saves are out.
I installed the game through xp mode, then replaced the folder in my win 7 directory. Have put each mod in one at a time then checked the museum. So far the result is no more blurred or missing textures(Some random BB's and DD's), no instant CTD when looking at a sub, no error when I click exit game. It's a start, I'm going to start career # 13
; get into 2 different heavy combat zones that I've memorized in the first couple weeks of the game, save before and after each conflict, and finally exit game and try to reload each. If successful I think I may have won a record for most futile time spent fixing something that wasn't broken. If the crashes persist I'll start picking apart the mods going back to step 1 rinsing and repeating.
~Thanks for all suggestions and support to this point and salvation may be just around the corner.