Drama drama, I like.
First of all, I have to say. Firewall, this is an international forum, you propably shouldnt take offence if someone calls you 'dude'. Jebus, in some country it might be offensive to use the word 'you', we just cant know it here with so many nationalities. So chill!
Second, I do remember reading the supposed post made by FW, and if it wasnt edited after that, I dont recall it being very harsh or anything (it also can be that I just down remember it right).
Third, moderators/Neal can edit your posts anyway they like, even to say "I make love to Santa" if they want, it is Neal's site, there's very little you can do about it. You did accept the terms of yaadiyaa when you signed up, diidnt you? It might not separate each and every thing, but it basically says you agree to play with the forum/site's rules. So cut the darn drama, ok?