Well, I don't know if they're compatible... If you've got TMO running, I would try that out for a patrol or two and see what you think. Honestly, it's such a good mod, you may not need the others for some time!
Don't forget the TMO incorporates many of the already released smaller mods into this one... it's comprehensive. So you get better looking environments, sinking physics, AI behaviour, historic fleet movement, etc.