Sounds just like a script straight from Jerry Springer.
Let me guess, you both live in trailer parks, have haircuts like Joe Dirt, and your current spouses are cousins you met at a family reunion. Sounds about right. Did I leave out the tattoos and piercings? So you came here looking for what? Approval? Someone to tell you it's OK? Well guess what <swings foot and plants a size 12 bootprint on both your arses>. You're both acting like idiots.
I guess this is where people like Springer and Dr. Phil get their guests. People like you two suffering from cranial-rectal inversion syndrome who don't have the common decency that god gave a goat. It's great that god gave man a brain and a penis. It's a shame he didn't give him enough blood to use both at the same time.
How many people are going to be hurt while you think with your genitalia?
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I'd suggest you seek professional help and
read this.