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Originally Posted by breadcatcher101
We have known each other 5 months, we work at the same place, mostly talk at lunch by our selves.
I understand the need for friends, but look at the replies here. Who says I don't have any?
Anyway, my friends I had mostly would have said "go for it" with only the thrill of having such a younger woman, not the type of advice I would have seeked. You guys have done a much better job than they ever would have.
I the past I have had "true friends" but that has been so long ago, no idea where they are now.
I have to settle things with my present wife first. Next time she flares up for no reason would be the time to call it over for us.
By that time, if my young friend still feels the same way, we'll go from there.
If not, at least I will be free.
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I'm not that BIG expert in family life but I know something important too
For relationship to last three vital subjects from both sides are a must: Respect, Friendship and Passion.
I guess that all these problems that occur from a loooong time together are because there's a lack of refreshing things couples do together. All you need to do yourself or with wife is put the imagination to work and slightly push yourself towards the fruition of idea.
I guess it's something like middle-age crisis that happens to people, but hang in there it will fade away, and you will be thanking yourself later that you didn't do the silly thing with much younger woman. Everyone has to deal with their family problems inside the circle of the family. Good luck
