Originally Posted by AVGWarhawk

My wife is 36 and I'm 44. Not quite the gap you are looking at but the difference makes no difference. I briefly read your post and stopped at 'having to take care for me when I'm an old man'. Come on, are you already thinking about that? Go, enjoy a good time with her and forget about what might happen. Be your own man and be in a relationship but still be independent.

I always make fun with my wife, she says I robbed the cradle. I say, no I got someone to push my wheel chair when I'm old and gray. Then I follow it up with, 'I do not care if you get a boyfriend when I'm wheel chair bound. Just feed me, change my drawers if I mess them and keep the drool off my chin.' Screw it, I'm having a great time!