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Originally Posted by Zachstar
While this is not a super easy call. I have to agree that after a lie that big is exposed. It virtually destroys the relationship.
Sure the surrogate father who has to pay may be "Friends" with them but that is it. No bonding. No "Passing on the family traditions" none of that.
This and the fact that divorce has become a business is why I will never get into a relationship. (Not even fooling around)
I would rather live a lonely life than face a 55-70 percent chance that my life will be virtually destroyed by the way "Love" works today.
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mate, I understand the risks, but its a hell of a thing to write off for yourself! Sure I understand its not for everyone, but you aren't willing to take a chance on the odds you find a great woman who makes you happy??
I'm not trying to criticize, I just wonder if you're ruling out a potentially wonderful thing based on the numbers which say theres a chance it won't work... am i making any sense?
