screw him if thats how he feels, i have worn those shoes before my friend.
but imagine I'M the dad.
Imagine for many years of my life i have been raising 2 kids that didnt belong to me.
despite how i felt about the kids... I WOULD BE PISSED, and i would probably rather not pay the child support any more.
that wife can find the man who owes her that money. i would still have an emotional attachment no doubt but i would have zero monetary responsibility.
16 years is a long time to be living a lie... not all men would take the attitude of "ohhhh awwwww well thats okay... because we love each other."
there happen to be a lot of men who would just dig 3 holes in the ground and put that "wife" and his "kids" in the ground.
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