Yep, I agree and it is funny to be sure. In my family all the men have indeed died first. My uncles are are gone my dad in gone etc... I really think it is from the stress they have for being the bread winner or else it is just in our genes. But then again in a sardonic way I always viewed my aunts and mother as harpies who are never satisfied with anything. Since my dad passed I take care of my mother and anything that i do for her is wrong. I told my dad that i would not put her in a home but since I have been caring for her my blood pressure has sky rocketed. Hmmm! I think I will go buy a cemetary plot today....
