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Originally Posted by August
(Post 2162830)
But how would you know? You'd be in a coma. I'd bet that if you came out of a coma after 8 years you'd be glad someone hadn't pulled your plug in the meantime.
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I would not be so certain of that, if I were you. Have you ever witnessed somebody waking up from coma after very long time, his struggle to find back into life, the shock, and the horror he faces when realising what happened, his inability to deal with the present situation, even his own body? I have. Nothing I would want to repeat myself. Not to mention the physical challenge you face after a multiple years coma. Not to mention the high age, in Sharon's age. Not to mention the immense burden and delayed opportunity of saying farewell by the next of kin, and what that delay does to their lives and psyches. Last but not least, the financial costs.
Also, you do not know what people may or may not experience in coma. There are a small handful of very malicious infections and disease that bypass the normal neural signal processing in the brain, their pain is being felt even if you are unconscious or under heavy anesthesia, all brain instances where drugs try to interrupt pain signal processing get bypassed, so the pain cannot be eased. Being buried alive in a coffin is a mercy, compared to being in agony for years, if fate strikes you.
It may be an individual decision, okay. But for me the decision is clear, and for my parents as well. Beyond a certain timeframe of days, some weeks, we would not want to be kept alive in coma. Also not if the survival is only at the cost of serious brain damages. Well, more stuff like that that for legal reasons I have specified in that document. Beyond a certain point, I do not want medical treatment anymore, only medical assistance to suppress physical pain and be enabled to leave as peacefully as possible.
Many people do not dare to imagine how high the costs for "life at all cost" can become - especially for the affected individual, but its family as well.
There is a time to fight for your life and to hang on. But at some point of time it is better to let go. Not all stories have happy-ends. In the end, there also is something important that in hospitals and in intensive care facilities faces the constant danger of getting ignored, getting forgotten: human dignity.