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Armistead 11-01-13 03:55 PM

Being Romantic
 
OK guys, more wife issues....My wife said I'm not romantic like I was when we first met. I'm not sure what to do, I''m just not romantic, makes me feel silly.
Geez, we've been married about 18 years, who needs romance at our age. I don't know, any ideas what I need to do?

Herr-Berbunch 11-01-13 04:02 PM

Just a card thanking her for being great wife/mother/best friend/lover/etc.. Hand written where possible, and elaborately delivered.

Good luck.

Armistead 11-01-13 04:08 PM

I took her out for bbq last night......

Anyway, I found a roll of film from 16 years ago, has a few great pics of us, thinking I will get one blown up, frame it and just hang it on the wall.

Ducimus 11-01-13 04:28 PM

How I do hate it when they pull the Romance card.

Maybe if it's possible, try explaining to her that men do things (as opposed to just saying things) to express themselves. Ever make her lunch, or do her laundry or something along those lines? That's male speak for "I care about a lot about you, so I'm trying to help you", because if you didn't care, you wouldn't lift a finger would ya? I know I wouldn't.

I'm lucky though. My wife's father is the exact same way so she grew up realizing that her dads way of expressing himself was though deeds, not words. My dads the same way, and I get off the hook a little bit, but not entirely. My wife still expects me to be "Morantic" once in awhile, but probably to a degree less then other women.

Jimbuna 11-01-13 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Armistead (Post 2136461)
I took her out for bbq last night......

Anyway, I found a roll of film from 16 years ago, has a few great pics of us, thinking I will get one blown up, frame it and just hang it on the wall.

Only show her the ones where she is fully clothed.

nikimcbee 11-01-13 05:07 PM

This isn't another Taquita thread is it?


Quote:

I took her out for bbq last night......
I'd go out with you for BBQ.:D Is it Texas BBQ?

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/i...cQR98uyZee3MGy

Armistead 11-01-13 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ducimus (Post 2136466)
How I do hate it when they pull the Romance card.

Maybe if it's possible, try explaining to her that men do things (as opposed to just saying things) to express themselves.

I tried that Duci...I clean and stuff...

She said that I never whisper "sweet nothings" in her ear when we make love. Last night, I kissed her and softly whispered in her ear "roll over" It didn't impress her....

My wife keeps me so confused...Other night we're laying in bed and she moans out "oh, I'm so hot" so I got naked and quickly jumped on, only to hear her say "get off idiot, I'm having a hot flash"

another wasted Viagra...

Armistead 11-01-13 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nikimcbee (Post 2136492)
This isn't another Taquita thread is it?




I'd go out with you for BBQ.:D Is it Texas BBQ?

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/i...cQR98uyZee3MGy


WTH is a Taquita thread......

AVGWarhawk wouldn't like me taking you out.

Armistead 11-01-13 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jimbuna (Post 2136481)
Only show her the ones where she is fully clothed.


Why....?

Oh, so she doesn't see how great she once looked naked...

got it..good idea:up:

nikimcbee 11-01-13 05:13 PM

Quote:

My wife keeps me so confused...Other night we're laying in bed and she moans out "oh, I'm so hot" so I got naked and quickly jumped one, only to hear her say "get off idiot, I'm having a hot flash"
Man, that's false advertising.:timeout: I'd call the Attorney General and file suit.

HW3 11-01-13 06:29 PM

Sounds like she is starting through the "change", they tend to go "nuts" during that time. A weekly "date night" might be just the thing she would like.

Wolferz 11-01-13 06:31 PM

This coming from the guy who posted the song link...
"It's hard to kiss the lips at night that chew your ass out all day long":haha:

I hate to break it to you but, you were in trouble long before this post.:hmmm:

You just need to get in touch with your inner snuggle bunny...

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With or without dweeb

u crank 11-01-13 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aktungbby (Post 2136526)
Next time leave out the 'Beethoven' unless yer' tappen' yer baton on the head board to keep time...:rotfl2:

Long as she got a dime.....:D

Armistead 11-01-13 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wolferz (Post 2136508)
This coming from the guy who posted the song link...
"It's hard to kiss the lips at night that chew your ass out all day long":haha:

I hate to break it to you but, you were in trouble long before this post.:hmmm:

You just need to get in touch with your inner snuggle bunny...

http://i205.photobucket.com/albums/b...aL__SY445_.jpg

Suit available for rental
With or without dweeb

I have done that and also have an online bromance with AVG that could grow into much more....I don't want to change, I was even planning on getting me my own bed... I am very happy with her as is, like I told her, she should romance me for once....

Armistead 11-01-13 09:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aktungbby (Post 2136526)
Next time leave out the 'Beethoven' unless yer' tappen' yer baton on the head board to keep time...:rotfl2:

Yes, I do that....


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