What do you make of this?
 

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Now taking the sexuality arguements about this case aside, what do you make out of bullying, and the suicides that sometimes occur due to said acts?

Now I have seen several outcomes due to bullying, as I think we all have seen:
Extreme violence against the percieved bully(ies), sometimes leading to death of multiple individuals.
Fighting back against the bully.
Bullying ending on its own.
Bullied taking the continued negative events.
Bullied removing themselves from the situation, sometimes leading to their own death.

Now kids, can be very VERY cruel. I am sure many of us know this first hand, maybe some of us were on the other side of the coin when they were younger. And I am sure that there must be acts like this story in the past, that maybe weren't as well publisized, irregardless, are these events more frequent than in the past? If that is the case, why? If that is not the case, does this make this story less important, or make it less significant?

I was always one of the biggest kids in my schools. I think I was 6'1" by age 5 it seems :)

Being the biggest kid, I was constantly picked on and bullied. It was not fun and I can understand how this can drive a kid to take extreme measures.

My father, gave me the advice to "fight back". His reasoning was that once you stand up to a bully, they will back down and not bother you again.

My father was mistaken. Like many adults, he was subscribing a logic to the bully that bullies simply don't have. Kids do not act/react like an adult!!!

I stood up to my bully. We had a fight and like every fight, both of us lost. My father was partly correct. After that the bully never bothered me again....alone.

The day after the fight, the bully and two of his friends beat the crap out of me. After that the three of them continued to harass and beat me.

What makes adults think that a bully is going to take a beating and suddenly decide "oh wow, what I was doing was wrong, I won't do that again" Bullocks!!

Bullies bully because they want to exert power over someone. A "fair" fight aint gonna change that. All they will do is get some of their friends and beat the crap out of you.

I have heard other adults advise me that I should have gotten two of MY friends and beat the three of them up. I honestly don't understand what happens to adult's brains when they "grow" up. :doh:

If I did that the bully would have gotten five of his friends..... and ultimately one of us would run out of friends or someone would get seriously hurt.

So no, based on my experiences, standing up to a bully accomplishes nothing and can result in worst treatment. Logic and reason do not apply to kid bullies!

I wish I know what the "solution" to the bully problem is. I am afraid I don't. I don't know if bullying is getting worse, the it seems to be getting more cruel and violent. It is a terrible problem and one that adults need to solve. You can't expect kids to solve this problem.

Maybe standing up to a bully in a "fair fight" worked for some. But in my school, it just got you a worse beating. But then I was in a big city school. Perhaps the type, size, and location of the school makes a difference?

If you use the word "irregardless" again, I will meet you in back of the Gym during lunch, OK? :D:D:D:D

Stories like that Sadden and make me Angry at the same time.

My heart go's out to his family. :cry:

Although people commit suicide for many reasons. It is my opinion that this kid committed suicide because he felt there was no solution to his problem.

If you are a parent, please listen to your kids when they talk about bullies. Don't brush it off. The last think a child needs to hear is that his or her parents "don't care".

To be honest and I'm not being inconsiderate here, kids can be the most nasty, verberally, physically and mentally because they know no better. The guilty conscience has not really set in at a young age. Thinking of other feelings is usually not considered before an act is done. It is not because they want to be mean or they see it as mean spirited, they just do not know any better. I used to ridicule the odd-ball kid and I as I grew up and wiser, I truly felt remorse and enough to wish I did not do those things as a kid.

With that thought in mind, yes, I see bullying physically, verbally or otherwise is enough to drive a kid to taking his/her life. Young minds are very impressionable and can be easily persuaded into believing anything. Good, bad or indifferent. It is truly sad to read the quote you posted. Some kids can take the BS or talk about with their folks which usually helps them sort it out. Some don't or can not for whatever reason. As you know, we can not find out why they did not talk about because the deed was already done. Very sad.....

His name is Jaheem and he's living in Georgia? I smell racism.

Huh:06:

According to some of the news reports (who knows how accurate they are), this was more anti-gay than racism related.

Racism???

Been to Atlanta?

There was probably a lot more Jaheems, jamals, Juans and Jose's in that school than there were Johnny's and Jessicas.

Hang the bullies! Hang the belly lot of them! It might seem hard, yet until we remove them from the gene pool, this world will never get better.

We had one at my primary school and since discipline is generally better here in Slovenia (so far, yet it is getting steadily worse from generation to generation) I didn't have too much trouble. But one day, a kid got "smart". Next day he was "visited" by my dad. A huge fellow, not as high (more than 1.80m), yet "big" and strong. The kid saluted me with sir and still says I must say Hi to my dad from that day onwards. Yet mine was a "happy" case with my dad standing behind me. I've had a classmate in primary school which would fall to the ground if your showed him a finger (not the finger) and was spineless and did everything one told him to do. Still feel sorry for the lad and I am sure that bullying had a strong influence on his behaviour.

Bullying should not be tolerated in any environment and particularly in schools.

It's so sad that this probably went unnoticed by the teachers...the very people best equipped to deal with the situation or at least get expert advice and help.

What a tragic waste of a young life :nope:

It goes unnoticed all the time Jim. Hell, I had two clowns after me all through Jr High school. Every lunch period they said to come outside and they would kick my arse. I would always say no problem, let me finish my lunch. I prefer to have my arse kicked on a full stomach. Everyday after lunch I would show up but they never did anything. Called their bluff and they backed off. :88) Anyway, teachers never noticed. I never said anything because it did not bother me.

It's even worse. People look the other way. I have a relative who is a part time teacher. Once she noticed that some guys were bullying someone. As a part time teacher who hasn't been teaching for some years she asked some of her colleagues how such cases are addressed nowadays. She got the answer: Look the other way. :damn:

And you would be absolutely correct, especially in parts of DeKalb county. What kills me is the advice the child was given when he complained to school authorities about the bullying. "Man up" is not what you tell a child to do when he complains about being bullied.