SUBSIM Radio Room Forums

SUBSIM Radio Room Forums (https://www.subsim.com/radioroom/index.php)
-   General Topics (https://www.subsim.com/radioroom/forumdisplay.php?f=175)
-   -   So incredibly sad... (https://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=126144)

DeepIron 12-02-07 01:33 PM

So incredibly sad...
 
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/7123460.stm

I can't imagine the pain and sorrow this man must of felt... To live and love someone most of your life and then watch them suffer with Alzheimers... :cry:

So, so sad... :cry:

Kapitan 12-02-07 03:01 PM

To be honest if i was the woman laying in the bed there id be thanking him right now, i wouldnt want to suffer.

Letum 12-02-07 03:47 PM

Strange, I have a Aunt with severe Alzheimer's disease and althow she isn't far from
death, she is enjoying life very much.
She lives very much from moment to moment beliveing she is 25 again. For her the care-home
is the classroom of pupils she used to teach.

Apart from occasional confusion, she certinaly isn't suffering.

Perhaps other cases are diffrent or perhaps it will get worse for her. I really don't know.
I hope not.

XabbaRus 12-02-07 04:18 PM

I think it is different for every sufferer. I knew an old woman who had Alzheimers and in the later stages it was quite bad. Couldn't remember her son's name. Funy thing is she always recognised me and my mother even though we had only known her a little while.

Kapitan 12-02-07 04:25 PM

My mother works in a nursing home there is one resident there who suffers from it there, and she only trusts her yet her own family cannot come and visit cause it causes her to be distressed.

She shouts at them saying get away and your attacking me i dont know who you are ect, it must be really sad for the lot of them.

Skybird 12-02-07 04:38 PM

Imagine this. An Alzheimer patient has forgotten that someone he loved has died long ago. He/she is calling for that person, and then being told that that person has died. Tragedy. Drama. Despair. Suffering. like on day one when the message arrived, years back.

And next day it all starts again, for over night it all has been forgotten again.

Death can be a friend in some situations.

STEED 12-02-07 05:30 PM

Another Grey area for Doctor's and a legal mine field in the court's. Some people here who have assisted there partner to die have been lock up or a lesser sentence depending on the judge they faced. I feel it's time this area was bought up to date but as we all know it will take many years to look at.

August 12-02-07 05:41 PM

I recently read a very interesting article on this subject and that of memory in general in National Geographic magazine. Here is a link to the online version:

http://magma.nationalgeographic.com/...foer-text.html

As sad a situation as the patient "EP" that they mention in the article sounds to us it looks like he at least does not suffer.

porphy 12-02-07 06:10 PM

A sad story indeed. Killed by a stranger...

Memory is fascinating. I read a few good essays on the subject in Oliver Sacks classic "The man who misstook his wife for a hat". I liked his way to find something positive even in some very severe cases of amnesia he described. Also different delusions is a subject similar in character.

cheers Porphy

kiwi_2005 12-02-07 06:26 PM

We need to build memory chips & embedd them into the brains of ALZ patients with basic memory programmed, in the chip is stored images of the patients identiy and identy of others like family members, friends etc,. then whenever the patient meets one the image & name will trigger her real memory. She/He will never forget the basics so to say. Then later on when we figure it out we move to the heavy stuff like the chips replaces the sick part of the brain. Your not going to cure ALZ so lets instead replace the sick area of the brain with a Chip!

We have the technology learning new things everyday our scientist can figure this out :yep:


"Ok beam me up Scotty"

porphy 12-02-07 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kiwi_2005
We need to build memory chips & embedd them into the brains of ALZ patients with basic memory programmed, in the chip is stored images of the patients identiy and identy of others like family members, friends etc,. then whenever the patient meets one the image & name will trigger her real memory. She/He will never forget the basics so to say....

See the movie Memento for some complications with solving amnesia with pictures and written words. It doesn't matter if they are in a chip in yor brain or photos in your hand, or written info on paper. If you lack all memories of your friends and can't form new memories, what is the picture of them supposed to do? At least it can't remind me of something. ;)

kiwi_2005 12-02-07 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porphy
Quote:

Originally Posted by kiwi_2005
We need to build memory chips & embedd them into the brains of ALZ patients with basic memory programmed, in the chip is stored images of the patients identiy and identy of others like family members, friends etc,. then whenever the patient meets one the image & name will trigger her real memory. She/He will never forget the basics so to say....

See the movie Memento for some complications with solving amnesia with pictures and written words. It doesn't matter if they are in a chip in yor brain or photos in your hand, or written info on paper. If you lack all memories of your friends and can't form new memories, what is the picture of them supposed to do? At least it can't remind me of something. ;)

The picture triggers her memory. Patient looks at her son that image of her son is already in the chip - which then tells her brain who he is which then jogs her real memory and bang she knows who he is. This is all done in a milli second.

Quote:

If you lack all memories of your friends and can't form new memories, what is the picture of them supposed to do?
Ah well maybe the Chip will store new memories as well. :) Ya see the chip is working with her vision what she/he sees the chip logs it into memory!

Far fetch of course but will have something like this (with a way better method than my caveman design) in the near future.


Yes ive seen Memento, cool movie. :)

TteFAboB 12-03-07 06:02 AM

This will help alot of people who think that they're selfish put themselves in a proper perspective.

Fish 12-03-07 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Skybird
Imagine this. An Alzheimer patient has forgotten that someone he loved has died long ago. He/she is calling for that person, and then being told that that person has died. Tragedy. Drama. Despair. Suffering. like on day one when the message arrived, years back.

And next day it all starts again, for over night it all has been forgotten again.

Death can be a friend in some situations.

Alzheimer is only good when you promised yourself only one drink a day. :up:

seafarer 12-03-07 12:49 PM

I had long time old friends of the family where the husband developed alzheimers. Eventually, one day his wife came home, and he attacked her with a kitchen knife, suddenly surprised to find a "stranger" in his house, and someone who he assumed was there to rob him or do other bad things. She got out, and went to a neighbor's and called 911.

Her husband then went into a managed care facility. He never recognized her, nor his kids or friends again. And, he became more violent and paranoid over time, as everyone was a stranger to him, he was always in a strange place and an unknown situation. He died after months of heavy sedation, as that was the only way to keep him from hurting himself and everyone else who came near him.

I think not having a memory can be one of the most horrifying things to happen to anyone - the entire world would become a strange and not so wonderful place all the time.

While it sounds surreal to say it, I was not sad when he finally died (I miss my friend, but was glad to see his ordeal finally over). I know all the joy had long gone out of his life and there had been nothing in this world for him for a long time.


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:47 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright © 1995- 2025 Subsim®
"Subsim" is a registered trademark, all rights reserved.