Task Force - lets say your with a woman for a while, make plans, etc, she gets pregnant, you rejoice - a task force jr to enter the world, till she decides, nope - I'm gonna kill it, sorry for you.

See, its always a little more complicated that "let the woman decide"......

There is no compromise possible when the choice is between two absolutes, and cannot be different than these two absolutes: do it or don't. I mean you hardly can offer a holiday trip, a new car or a golden ring as a compensation for the decision finally made.

I agree with that in the end it has to be the decision of the woman. It's her body. Attempts to influence her decision are legitimite up to a certain level, but necessarily must come to an end beyond a certain stage. If it goes the hard way and up to the bitter end of debate, the decison of the mother overrules the wishing of the man. She is not his property and does not owe him absolute obedience.