Self knowledge is the first precondition for personal improvment. I do not judge wether what you say about her is true, or just a theory of yours. It's enough to know that all this reasoning - especially the reasoning about yourself - is and necessarily must be the basis of your future acting - wether it will be in good or bad is up to you.

"True warriors know the only battlefield where victory counts, lies within them." :) Just a phrase from a TV series. But it is true. ;)

Good to see that your mood has finally become better. I wish you luck, endurance and of course success for your "selfchange" program.:DL

Take responsibility for yourself - be strong in yourself, and all else will fall into place. Well done my friend.

Been there
 

With me, it was my wife. Thank God you didn't get that far.

Nothing anyone can say here will make it feel better.

It feels better to tell someone, though. Let it out. Move on.

Yea admiting my own faults and moving to change them is always good. I hate to play the blame game when alot of the blame falls squarely on my lap.

I to was married once and it was short lived and it destroyed me. In fact that was when my jobless lazy and complacent downward spiral began. Sahra just found me when I was at a low point. She gave me alot of support but I just wasn't ready to face the world and continue moving forward. In fact one of her biggest issues that really bothered her was that I am still married even know I have not seen my wife in several years. She asked me several times to get devorced but I failed to save any money towards that goal because i was busy spending it on what now I realise was wasted time. Bars, toys, computer upgrades etc. I mean I clearly didnt have my priority's straight and I used my failed marriage as another excuse to not push myself forward even know I was long over that marriage.

It is for the best that this happened. I hope to see us together in the future living our dreams but I understand that that is probably not going to happen. I know from many relationships that once they set out to move on their is little you can do but live your life and hope that something down the road, Mutual friends, Memmory's or just coincidence brings you back together again.

I can let her go, and I have. Its like the old saying "If you love someone let them go." Maybe she will be back and for the past few days I was assuring myself that that would be the case but even know I know that she is in love with me their is always somebody to pick up the peices. ANd she has made up her mind about us anyhow. So here is a salute to her and her happiness and a salute to you.

:wah::wah:
Hopefully there is something wonderful just around the corner!:oops: I wish you all the best.:yep:
Cheers.

Positive buoyancy Frei http://www.psionguild.org/forums/ima...s/thumbsup.gif

If you ever start missing the life of a man with a girlfriend you could always do like this guy did... Craigslist has everything!

http://toronto.en.craigslist.ca/tor/msr/1737817677.html

That's funny!

Reminds me of an ad I saw in a local Want Ads paper, a long long time ago:

"Wife says motorcycle goes or she does. Either one $500."

That would depend on how many have taken a ride on her..... the wife, I mean.

"Only dropped once?"

"Low mileage?"

"Always garaged - never left out in the weather?"

cylinders re-bored? :D

Doesnt matter...

It doesnt matter how beautiful she is, somewhere there is a man tired of putting up with her sh*t





take the bike HAHAHA

Bikes might growl but they don't talk back!!