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Sixpack 03-29-06 07:48 AM

Very convincing piece ! :yep:

And so, while our attention and money and men and materiel and morale are monomaniacally focused on, and squandered in, Iraq, the very years in which Western Europe could still be saved, the years in which other, better leaders could help its people come to their senses about Islam, and could be supported in this by a muscular United States with all of its resources, time is wasted, and much else is wasted as well. The inertia in Iraq, the stubborn refusal to comprehend the irrelevance of this pseudo-"democracy" to the more important task of constaining, containing, dividing, and demoralizing the forces of Islam, maddens. Clocks tick, and eventually, demography becomes destiny.

Wim Libaers 03-29-06 07:05 PM

Re: Good bye Europe
 
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Originally Posted by scandium
I stopped reading at "Europe’s botched civilization, perverted by socialism and lost faith..."

Being a democratic socialist I lost interest in whatever else he had to say when he began with the assumption that socialism is a perversion while still only at the point of laying out his thesis statement. Either he's a very poor writer or the article is aimed at a select audience who share that premise as a foregone conclusion.

That was obvious from the beginning. It is aimed at his own group, and those who might join it. To convince people that his way is the right way, he identifies some real problems in Europe, and then blames them on all possible deviations from his ideology.

Not that socialism isn't problematic, and a lot of the socialist parties in Europe are quite pro-immigrant (even though their European socialist voters don't like them at all), but demonstrating that is not his goal, he just wants to warn his people to keep their faith and breeding performance high, or else...

You could make a similar case against the Church, which also is quite pro-immigrant and pro muslim appeasement in Europe despite opposite feelings from many followers, but he doesn't put that in his article.

To illustrate this, here's another text with some good questions/problems (similar to the first article in the thread), that also recommends a racial ideology that many people (more than with the first article) will probably dislike. The form also makes it more obvious that he is primarily addressing those who are already ideologically close to him.
http://www.natvan.com/free-speech/fs0208c.html

Of course, this can create some image problems for the more moderate people who also see these problems, as their opponents can try to push them in the same corner as the radicals who asked similar questions.



Also, the part about population reduction is flawed. Why should we fear population reduction? Some countries in Europe are densely populated, and a small, gradual reduction would put less pressure on the environment. The problem is not population reduction, it's population displacement by a hostile, anti-European population. Follow the suggestion to attempt to outbreed the muslims, and you'll just end up in a miserable, overcrowded country.

Torplexed 03-29-06 09:06 PM

Reading this thread makes our U.S. illegal immigrant problem seem almost like a blessing in contrast. I certainly have more in common culturally and religiously with the hispanics and the other latins coming here from Mexico and points south than I think I ever will with muslims. Plus, there is a large percentage here that try to assimilate, learn English and have no desire to return to their homeland. Illegal immigration has certainly caused it's share of social and economic headaches in the U.S. but I must confess I prefer burritos over burhkas any day.

Happy Times 03-29-06 09:13 PM

Swedish Welfare State Collapses as Immigrants Wage War
 
  • Last year I wrote an article about how Swedish society is disintegrating and is in danger of collapsing, at least in certain areas and regions. The country that gave us Bergman, ABBA and Volvo could become known as the Bosnia of northern Europe. The “Swedish model” would no longer refer to a stable and peaceful state with an advanced economy, but to a Eurabian horror story of utopian multiculturalism, socialist mismanagement and runaway immigration. Some thought I was exaggerating, and that talk of the possibility of a future civil war in Sweden was pure paranoia. Was it?

    In a new sociological survey (pdf in Swedish, with brief English introduction) entitled “Vi krigar mot svenskarna” (“We’re waging a war against the Swedes”), young immigrants in the troubled city of Malmö have been interviewed about why they are involved in crime. Although it is not stated, most of the immigrant perpetrators are Muslims. In one of the rare instances where the Swedish media actually revealed the truth, the newspaper Aftonbladet reported several years ago that 9 out of 10 of the most criminal ethnic groups in Sweden came from Muslim countries. This must be borne in mind whilst reading the following newspaper article:

    Immigrants are “waging war” against Swedes through robbery

    The wave of robberies the city of Malmö has witnessed during this past year is part of a “war against the Swedes.” This is the explanation given by young robbers from immigrant backgrounds when questioned about why they only rob native Swedes, in interviews with Petra Åkesson for her thesis in sociology. “I read a report about young robbers in Stockholm and Malmö and wanted to know why they rob other youths. It usually does not involve a lot of money,” she says. She interviewed boys between 15 and 17 years old, both individually and in groups.

    Almost 90% of all robberies reported to the police were committed by gangs, not individuals. “When we are in the city and robbing we are waging a war, waging a war against the Swedes.” This argument was repeated several times. “Power for me means that the Swedes shall look at me, lie down on the ground and kiss my feet.” The boys explain, laughingly, that “there is a thrilling sensation in your body when you’re robbing, you feel satisfied and happy, it feels as if you’ve succeeded, it simply feels good.” “It’s so easy to rob Swedes, so easy.” “We rob every single day, as often as we want to, whenever we want to.” The immigrant youth regard the Swedes as stupid and cowardly: “The Swedes don’t do anything, they just give us the stuff. They’re so wimpy.” The young robbers do not plan their crimes: “No, we just see some Swedes that look rich or have nice mobile phones and then we rob them.”

    Why do they hate the Swedes so much? “Well, they hate us,” Petra Åkesson reports them as answering. “When a Swede goes shopping, the lady behind the counter gives him the money back into his hand, looks into his eyes and laughs. When we go shopping, she puts the money on the counter and looks the other way.” Åkesson, who is adopted from Sri Lanka and hence does not look like a native Swede, says it was not difficult to get the boys to talk about their crimes. Rather they were bragging about who had committed the most robberies. Malin Åkerström,a professor in sociology, sees only one solution to the problem: “Jobs for everybody. If this entails a deregulation of the labor market to create more jobs, then we should do so.”

    It is interesting to note that these Muslim immigrants state quite openly that they are involved in a “war,” and see participation in crime and harassment of the native population as such. This is completely in line with what I have posited before. The number of rape charges in Sweden has quadrupled in just above twenty years. Rape cases involving children under the age of 15 are six times as common today as they were a generation ago. Most other kinds of violent crime have rapidly increased, too. Instability is spreading to most urban and suburban areas. Resident aliens from Algeria, Libya, Morocco and Tunisia dominate the group of rape suspects. Lawyer Ann Christine Hjelm found that 85 per cent of the convicted rapists were born on foreign soil or from foreign parents. The phenomenon is not restricted to Sweden. The number of rapes committed by Muslim immigrants in Western nations is so extremely high that it is difficult to view these rapes as merely random acts of individuals. It resembles warfare. This is happening in most Western European countries, as well as in other non muslim countries such as India. European jails are filling up with Muslims imprisoned for robberies and all kinds of violent crimes, and Muslims bomb European civilians. One can see the mainstream media are struggling to make sense of all of this. That is because they cannot, or do not want to, see the obvious: this is exactly how an invading army would behave: rape, pillage and bombing. If many of the Muslim immigrants see themselves as conquerors in a war, it all makes perfect sense.

    Malmö in Sweden, set to become the first Scandinavian city with a Muslim majority within a decade or two, has nine times as many reported robberies per capita as Copenhagen, Denmark. Yet the number one priority for the political class in Sweden during this year’s national election campaign seems to be demonizing neighboring Denmark for “xenophobia” and a “brutal” debate about Muslim immigration. During last years Jihad riots in France, Sweden’s Social Democratic Prime Minister Göran Persson criticised the way the French government handled the unrest in the country. “It feels like a very hard and confrontational approach.” Persson also rejected the idea of more local police as a “first step” in Sweden. “I don’t believe that’s the way we would choose in Sweden. To start sending out signals about strengthening the police is to break with the political line we have chosen to follow,” he said. Meanwhile, as their authorities have largely abandoned their third largest city to creeping anarchy, there is open talk among the native Swedes still remaining in Malmö of forming vigilante groups armed with baseball bats out of concern for their children’s safety. As I argued in another essay: If Arnold Schwarzenegger fails to get re-elected as Governor of California he may like to do a sequel to “Conan the Barbarian.” He could shoot it in Malmö. He will get the extras for free.

    What happened to the famous Swedish nanny state, you say? Don’t Swedes pay the highest tax rates in the world? Yes, they do. But tens of billions of kroner, some say several hundred billions, are being spent every year on propping up rapidly growing communities of Muslim immigrants. Sweden has become the entire world’s welfare office, because the political elites have decided that massive Muslim immigration is “good for the economy.” Soon Sweden’s “army” may comprise no more than 5,000 men, five thousand troops to defend a nation more than three times the area of England. Moreover, it may take up to a year to assemble all of them, provided they are not on peacekeeping missions abroad. That Sweden might soon need a little peacekeeping at home seems to escape the establishment. In 2006 the celebrated Swedish welfare state has become the world’s largest pyramid scheme, an Enron with a national flag.

    Although Sweden is an extreme example, similar stories could be told about much of Western Europe. As Mark Steyn points out, the Jihad in the streets of France looked like the early skirmishes of an impending Eurabian civil war, brought on by massive Muslim immigration and Multicultural stupidity. Law and order is slowly breaking down in major and even minor cities across the European continent, and the streets are ruled by aggressive gangs of Muslim youngsters. At the same time, Europeans are paying some of the highest taxes in the world. We should remind our authorities that the most important task of the state – some would even claim it should be the only task of the state – is to uphold the rule of law in exchange for taxation. Since it is becoming pretty obvious that this is no longer the case in Eurabia, we should question whether these taxes are still legitimate, or whether they are simply disguised Jizya paid in the form of welfare to Muslims and our new Eurocrat aristocracy. Although not exactly the Boston Tea Party, perhaps the time has now come for a pan-European tax rebellion: We will no longer pay taxes until our authorities restore law and order and close the borders to Muslim immigration.

    This is urgent. When enough people feel that the system is no longer working and that the social contract has been breached, the entire fabric of democratic society could unravel. What happens when the welfare state system breaks down, and there is no longer enough money to “grease” the increasing tensions between immigrants and native Europeans? And what happens when people discover that their own leaders, through the EU networks and the Euro-Arab Dialogue described by Bat Ye’or in her book “Eurabia,” have been encouraging all these Muslims to settle here in the first place? There will be massive unemployment, and tens of millions of people will feel angry, scared and humiliated, betrayed by the system, by society and by their own democratic leaders. This is a situation in some ways similar to the Great Depression that led to the rise of the Nazis in the 1930s. Is this where we are heading once again, with fear, rising Fascism and political assassinations? The difference is that the “Jewish threat” in the 1930s was entirely fictional, whereas the “Islamic threat” now is very real. However, it is precisely the trauma caused by the events of 70 years ago that is clouding our judgement this time, since any talk at all about the threat posed by Muslim immigration or about preserving our own culture is being dismissed as “the same rhetoric as the Nazis used against the Jews.” Europeans have been taught to be so scared of our own shadows that we are incapable of seeing that darkness can come from the outside, too. Maybe Europe will burn again, in part as a belated reaction to the horrors of Auschwitz. http://www.brusselsjournal.com/node/938

Sea Demon 03-30-06 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by The Avon Lady
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Originally Posted by Skybird
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Originally Posted by Sea Demon
Abraham Lincoln had a saying during the U.S. Civil War. We are a nation of laws, but "The Constitution is not a suicide pact".

I like that one.

However, Lincoln never said it. :nope:

Thanks for the correction Avon Lady. You're correct. :oops:

While many attribute this to Abraham Lincoln, further research shows that the phrase was actually coined by U.S. Supreme Court Associate Justice Robert Jackson.

But nevertheless, I think you'll agree that democracy is not a suicide pact either. ;)

Sixpack 03-30-06 03:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Torplexed
Reading this thread makes our U.S. illegal immigrant problem seem almost like a blessing in contrast. I certainly have more in common culturally and religiously with the hispanics and the other latins coming here from Mexico and points south than I think I ever will with muslims. Plus, there is a large percentage here that try to assimilate, learn English and have no desire to return to their homeland. Illegal immigration has certainly caused it's share of social and economic headaches in the U.S. but I must confess I prefer burritos over burhkas any day.

:yep: Indeed, count your blessings Torplexed and Americans ! I'm, serious, I never understood thes American issue with Mexican influx. I wish they came this way :rotfl:

The Avon Lady 03-30-06 03:46 AM

Neither one is like the other.

But who the hell do they think they are?!

http://img55.imageshack.us/img55/7366/upsidedown3qv.jpg
Whittier area students from Pioneer, California and Whittier high schools walked out of classes to protest the proposed federal immigration bill March 27, 2006. The protestors put up the Mexican flag over the American flag flying upside down at Montebello High. (Leo Jarzomb/Staff photo)

Abraham 03-30-06 04:11 AM

Good bye Europe
 
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Originally Posted by scandium
I noticed the author citing in his second paragraph:

Sustaining the population of a nation requires that on average each couple gives birth to 2.1 children. The average European couple now has fewer than 1.4 babies...

I'm willing to accept his statistics here as you need at least an average of 2 children per family just to replace the parents and its well known that for generations the birthrate has been declining in the West, so his figure of 1.4 also looks about right.

Faced with a declining population of our own what would be your solution? Tougher immigration to keep foriegners out which ensures, based on the current birthrate, a shrinking population and with it a shrinking taxbase. The net outcome being we will simply depopultate ourselves into non-existance. Or are you in favour of selective immigration from another culture with which to replace our own dwindling numbers with? If so which of these culture(s) is acceptable to you? Another approach that might work would be the criminalization of birth control/abortion to increase the birthrate of European "stock", though as that would alienate a very large percentage of voters it would not be an easy thing to enact. Is that a solution you think acceptable?

I'm curious as to how you think Europe should handle the multicultural issue while still sustaining its current population.

@ scandium:
This question is very easy to answer for a Dutchman.
For centuries through our strong emphasys on maritime trade and our traditional freedom of religion, we have been a country of immigrants. Immigrants from Flanders, the Cologne area, French Hugenots, Portugese Jews, Protestant English, poor Germans from the Münster area, Eastern European Jews, the list is practically endless. At the same time we grew from seven fairly independent Provinces into a Nation state. We devellopped a national identity: being a Dutchman stands for something, be it positive or negative. All or most of those immigrants left something, or perhaps I should say: added something to our culture and our economy.
Later, after WWII, we took in a huge amount of people from the Dutch Indies, including Chinse, later 'guest laborers' from poor European countries like Italy, Spain and Greece, then in the '70s a huge influxe of black and 'Hindustan' people from Surinam, boat refugees from Vietnam etc. All these people cause hardly any problems (at least after the first generation). They work, start firms, their children study, they play football, complain about the weather, in one word; they become Dutchmen. And they are widely accepted as such with complete disregard of the color of their skin.

Things went wrong with Muslim immigrants.

How come?
One clear answer only. All the groups I mentionned came to Holland to survive and/or lead a better life. With all the problems their integration costed, one thing was clear: they accepted our culture, were happy with the chance they got, and decided to participate in their new country. They could keep their own habits, their own religion, their own expressions, but under the - liberal - laws of this country. They accepted the - as it is called - dominant culture and integrated - sometimes without assimilation.

The problem with Muslims (I realize I am generalising but it is for arguments sake) is that they don't accept our culture, including our legal system, as dominant. That's because that place is reserved for Islam, which has not devellopped yet to distinguish the true place of a religion in a culture. That's the problem in one line and the result is that we are expecting the impossible from immigrants: integration into a society that they consider as inferior and often hostile towards Islam.
But of course our centre-left government in the seventies - and all the demo-socialists (somehow I like that term) on their left flank - kept their eyes firmly closed for upcoming racial/religious/cultural problems, thought us that the Dutch culture was a thing of the past, consequently decided to scrap history from the list of obliged school subjects and declared Holland as the torchbearer of a new, so called "Multi Cultural" Europe in which criticism of other cultures was harsly suppressed by the tought police but criticism of our own Jewish Christian heritage subsidised by the Government.
Now even some lefties (were forced to) see that things went way out of control and measures are being taken to restore the situation back to normal, which is a hell of a task.

So to answer your question: any immigration to this country is welcome as long as they accept it as their country, accept out culture as dominant and are willing to participate in our economy. That should be the only selection. And I dare to conclude that Arabs/Muslims are bad immigrants from the point of view of their new host society.
I am sick of people who come here, claim state welfare including child support for children they supposedly have according to local birth certificates and send the (=our) money to Morocco, as has happened in the past.

FERdeBOER 03-30-06 04:41 AM

Only general point of view:

Think first why they are escaping from their countries and why are this countries in this points.

Think about: how the things would be in your country if you decide that is better to risk your live, cross half Africa, put to sea on a overcrowded ship or small boat without knowing to swim, without water... and arrive on a country that is different on language and culture?
And finally you find a work... a work that no one of this new country wants. You work for hours, your pay is ridicolous and you can be fired when the boss wants because you have no papers. You don't even exist, But you achieve to enlarge the money and can live on a 30 m2 flat with other 20 people, eat a bit, and send some to your familly.

And now think how the country is in that situation: yes, we, the poor Europeans that are being invaded, where there. We invaded their countries, took their wood, gold, platinum, diamonds... primary resources.
We enslaved them and, when they revealed, we left the country, but before leaving, we put a tribal leader that will sell the resources to Europe while we support him whith weapons, a lot of weapons.
And if the things are growing stable... a little help to the rebel faction in order to create civil disorders or even a civil war will put them again into darkness.

At last, think that if it wouldn't be for the inmigrants, you will have to work from 12 to 70 years old, because if not, there will be no money to support our way of life.

NO MAN IS ILLEGAL.

The Avon Lady 03-30-06 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by FERdeBOER
Only general point of view:

Think first why they are escaping from their countries and why are this countries in this points.

Think about: how the things would be in your country if you decide that is better to risk your live, cross half Africa, put to sea on a overcrowded ship or small boat without knowing to swim, without water... and arrive on a country that is different on language and culture?

And finally you find a work... a work that no one of this new country wants. You work for hours, your pay is ridicolous and you can be fired when the boss wants because you have no papers. You don't even exist, But you achieve to enlarge the money and can live on a 30 m2 flat with other 20 people, eat a bit, and send some to your familly.?

Just like the US at the start of the 20th century. Yet immigrants become integrated with the country, were proud of their citizenship and for the most part became contributors to society.

Think of the slums and tenaments of the Lower East Side.

These people came from all walks of life and succeeded to blend in to that melting pot called America.

Now ask yourself why that is not happening in Europe today. And keep in mind that there were almost no social and health services that come anywhere near today what immigrants are receiving throughout the western world.
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And now think how the country is in that situation: yes, we, the poor Europeans that are being invaded, where there. We invaded their countries, took their wood, gold, platinum, diamonds... primary resources.

We enslaved them and, when they revealed, we left the country, but before leaving, we put a tribal leader that will sell the resources to Europe while we support him whith weapons, a lot of weapons.

And if the things are growing stable... a little help to the rebel faction in order to create civil disorders or even a civil war will put them again into darkness.
So this is about revenge? Historical agendas? Europe should bend over and take what it deserves, is that the new line?
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NO MAN IS ILLEGAL.
Plenty of people are. That's a fact.

Abraham 03-30-06 06:05 AM

Good bye Europe
 
@ FERdeBOER:
In my posting earlier on this page I was talking about legal immigrants, who are, certainly seen from the point of view of their hom countries, pampered with social benefits and government aid workers to promote integration.
I just wanted to make the point that if you want to immigrate, you'll have to accept the culture of your host country as dominant. If you don't, you're not immigrating but invading.
Another example. In Holland there is a discussion about a (Muslim) school girl that refuses to shake hands with men.
First I should tell you that we Dutch have the strange habit of shaking hands when we meet others or are intoduced. Been doing that for ages.
This girl says that her religion forbids any physical contact with males above 12. The reason is obvious, it is a female suppressing cultural rule of a oversexed and undercivilised male dominant desert tribe from the Dark Ages.
Some Dutch took offense for not being greeted by her in our funny Dutch way. She went to the Anti-discrimination Board which declared her position valid, even in our society. This is definitly the wrong signal. My solution: Integrate, and if this society is asking too much, go back to your tribe!

The Avon Lady 03-30-06 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Abraham
In Holland their is a discussion about a (Muslim) school girl that refuses to shake hands with men.
First I should tell you that we Dutch have the strange habit of shaking hands when we meet others or are intoduced. Been doing that for ages.

This girl says that her religion forbids any physical contact with males above 12. The reason is obvious, it is a female suppressing cultural rule of a oversexed and undercivilised male dominant desert tribe from the Dark Ages.

Watch me jump to Islam's defence! :yep:

Are Muslim men allowed to shake hands with other women (whether Muslim or not)? If yes, then you have a point in this particular case. If not, however, and the prohibition of shaking hands in Islamic law/customer with the opposite gender is equivalent for both men and women, then your claim in this particular instance is wrong.

I speak from first hand experience, pun unintended.

OK. So it was intended. Sue me!

Konovalov 03-30-06 06:43 AM

Avon Lady,

Is what you have referred to in your link covered under the Jewish law of Tzniut which if I recall correctly is the area of modesty? And if so and I'm on the right track here, is this law or principle behind why orthodox Jewish women cover their hair outside of their own house be it by a hat, scarf, wig or other method?

The Avon Lady 03-30-06 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Konovalov
Is what you have referred to in your link covered under the Jewish law of Tzniut which if I recall correctly is the area of modesty?

Correct. Tzniut is the Hebrew term for modesty.
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And if so and I'm on the right track here, is this law or principle behind why orthodox Jewish women cover their hair outside of their own house be it by a hat, scarf, wig or other method?
Yes, like myself. Specifically the law of hair covering is for married women and generally when they are in the presence of other men.

Abraham 03-30-06 08:57 AM

Good bye Europe
 
@ The Avon Lady:
If somebody greets you in a Western country like Holland by streching out his/her hand and you refuse to take that hand for reasons of modesty, you are making a mistake. Whether it concerns a Muslim man or woman is not the determaning factor for my claim.
The mistake is that, while the rule that has been given in your religion, may be very valid within the timeframe and/or within the society in which it is generally accepted, you - as a new immigrant - have moved to a new society, with another culture and you have to think hard whether that is acceptable for you and - if not - how far you will compromise without shutting yourself up in your own subculture.

I know this kind of problems can pop up within Judaïsm as well as in Islam. However, there it is - if I am well informed - not only a matter of modesty but also of cleanness and hygiene. That had its merits, 2.500+ years ago in the desert, but those rules are archaïc an sometimes offensive.
I once knew a stewardess with KLM who was asked by a fundamental (male) Jewish passenger if she had her period, otherwise he did not want to be served by her. My reaction: go hich hiking or fly El Al. Nobody ordered you to fly KLM, but if you do, you accept the local norms.
(Although religious Jews sometimes prefer to fly KLM to enjoy non-kosher food, not having ordered a kosher meal beforehand but blaming KLM for a mess up in order to justify themselves with their friends. KLM countered those tactics by keeping scores of extra kosher meals on Tel-Aviv-Amsterdam-New York flights.)
:D

This kind of behaviour, whether based on religion or archaic customs, is often considered very offending if not discriminatory by the autochtones, who are reaching out to help newcomers integrate in our society.
As far as I know, especially the Jews are masters in strechting the interpretation of those rules in such ways that they are not to much hindered in their daily live by these rules themselves, in the proces circumvening their original intention. To give an exemple: observant Jews are not allowed to make fire or light during the Sabbath. When my father was young (in the early thirties of last century) he and his friends went to Jewish families on Friday nights and earned a few dimes by switching on the light in their houses. Nowadays modern wigs have replaced old time veils and electronics has come to the help of the observant Jews. Hotels in major Israeli cities have a "Sabbath-elevator" which is set to stop at each floor so you can get in and out without pressing - and lighting - a button (or having to resort to the stairs).

While this may sound funny, opportunistic or even hypocritical to some, observant Jews are fully justified to set their own religious parameters and shouldn't care about world opinion.
However, a problem arises when one decides to settle in a different country and culture and especially when one interacts with the autochtone population. Because not observing the dominant rules of normal behaviour is a statement: I moved to and am now living in your culture, but my own culture forbids me to follow your cultural rules. In other words, my culture is superior and I don't accept your culture as dominant.
Well, you really have a problem then, because you are offending another ethnic group or culture. Integrate or move back, too bad.

By the way, the link you gave clearly states the archaïc, sexually induced, male dominant view on the "problem" of normal physical contact between men and women (weird that neither the fundamental Judaïsme nor the Islam takes the possible sexual tangent of physical contact between men and men into account! In those cultures men to men contacts can be quite intense, embracing and often kissing is considered acceptable. This is in my view proof of the male-dominant background of those rules).

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Every time an Orthodox man or woman distances him or herself from even the most non-erotic forms of physical contact, he or she is reminded that what is forbidden in this instance is promoted elsewhere - i.e., within the exclusive context of marriage.

Every act of distancing is also an act of drawing close to one's spouse.

A ban on touching acknowledges the natural physical attraction between men and women, and serves as a warning.

True, shaking hands is a pretty innocuous form of contact, and for that reason some Orthodox religious authorities permit it in the business context. But the same claim of innocuousness is made for kissing and hugging in many circles. Rather than stepping onto a slippery slope and leaving the matter to subjective determinations about the erotic content of any particular act, many Orthodox Jews choose to simply avoid any physical contact.

A ban on touching acknowledges the natural physical attraction between men and women, and serves as a warning. Those who observe the ban convey the message that "the erotic element is excluded from our relationship." Far from showing a lack of "dignity and respect" for those of the opposite gender, observance of the ban reflects a determination to treat members of the opposite sex with the utmost respect - as everything but objects of sexual desire. Judging from the proliferation of sexual-harassment charges in work settings and elsewhere, many women would prefer precisely such relationships
... but are not asked", I would like to add.

Demanding women not to do certain things and cover themselves up to a certain degree is a typical male-dominant easy way out-rule. The problem clearly lies with men who are obviously susceptable to hit the "slippery slope" of "disrespect" and even possible "sexual harrisment" when seeing an unveiled woman or touching her in "even the most non-erotic form".
Poor Jewish and Muslim men, what should we do about them. I guess those religions should come up with some drastic rules for men to behave, for instance a ban on looking at attractive women. The problem is that unless you resort to Burka's and Niqfa's or whatever garbage bag-style of clothing, women still can be attractive to men, and often want to be so. Sexual attractiveness is created by G-d, God, Allah and any denial of this sexual tension only serves to magnify sexual frustration.
I mean I can honestly say that - ostentably contrary to the men the quote reflected upon - I can shake a man's or a woman's hand with the most non-erotic thoughts...
:D


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