Sailor Steve |
10-25-12 10:40 AM |
Sky, again you look at someone else the way many of us look at you, hence my pot/kettle reference earlier.
Allow me to speak for myself. Most of the people who know me know that I almost never assume that I'm right, unless it's a technical discussion and I can point to actual facts. When I try to explain that to you, you dismiss it and go on with your assumption that I'm like you. I'm not.
My problem with you has never been on points of argument. If you had discussed your points with me in a civilized manner you might have come to realize that I agree with you up to a point. But you couldn't do that. You have a bad habit of assuming you know better than whoever you're talking to and lecturing them as if they were students who came to you for your wisdom and knowledge. We are not students, and you don't come across as all that wise or knowledgeable. Maybe you are. I'm just saying that you don't present yourself that way.
You might want to retort that it's not your job to please people or to be liked. Unfortunately in an open forum that is exactly what you must do if you want people to treat you in a similar manner. You've just done it again with Buddahaid in the 'Benghazi' thread. Maybe you're right in your thinking, but it never seems to occur to you that you might be wrong, or that he might actually have a point worth considering. Sure you disagree. Sure you're convinced you're right. That said, calling his ideas "idiotic logic" immediately places you in the "haughty" and "self-righteous" category you assign to Takeda. That you don't see that just makes it worse. People, myself included, have called you "arrogant" in the past. You may or may not be, but that's the way many of us see you. You need to remember that we are not your students and you are not here to teach us. We are all equals here, and we are all here to discuss things. Argue, yes, but not from the point that you are our superior. You're not.
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