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03-28-07 06:26 PM |
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if you intentionally damage yourself.
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What about these kids on skateboards and they come flying off and break bones and chip teeth, and extreme sports people, they intentionally are damaging themselves, should they be forced to pay for their own medical costs too? I am paying for any future costs, every time I buy a delivery of cigars or a pack of menthol cigarettes, I am paying. I'm just one 19 year old girl who smokes, there are millions of others like me who all pay with every purchase of ciggies. Don't know what its like in other countries, but I consider myself paying up ready. Though I don't plan on smoking all my life.
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Read what I answered to jumpy. If you do sports, you do not intentionally try to hurt yourself. Concerning risky sports, there are those who do in fact argue that if you do parachute jumping, or inline skating, you should add a bit more to your treatmeent costs than if you would have had an accidnet from a less risky sport. However, a parachute jumper tries to survie at all cost, and me (inline skating) tries not to have an accident. We try to reduce the risk involved. A smoker is not after a positve health effort (smoking never does any good for you). You cannot compare the two.
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When you smoke, and inhale the smoke, and breath it out again, where do you breath it out to? Into the air, into the air of a closed room or ambient like your appartment. And what kind of air are people living beside you in that appartment do breathe in? The same air that you intoxicated with the smoke you just breathed out.
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I have every right to smoke in the comfort of my own home. If my neighbours don't like the idea of me smoking too bad. There is a brick wall between us that partitions us. Smoke may stick to walls, it doesn't magically phase through them. Besides, my neighbours irritate me and my family enough with their partys that go on, and that punk 18 year old spoilt brat of theirs, he has his music going till all hours he does. Not super loud, but loud enough.
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I never said people should be forbidden to smoke in their own four walls. but I indicated that parents act irresponsible if they smoke in their home while raising kids. Kids are defenseless against the misbehavior of their parents, and many of their body tissues are far more sensitive while they are still young, which also is true for the lungs. They cannot evade passive smokingand are more vulnerable to it than adults, and amongst adults, females are more vulnerable to the toxic effects of smokingk, than males. Let's face it, pregnant women are recommend to drink no alcohol, and stop smoking. And I would like to see parents not smoking, too.
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passive smoking...*snip*... It's almost like smoking yourself.
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It is in terms of ill effects, yes. Though being near a smoker is not an accurate sample of what smoking is like.
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I prefer to trust the scientists here doing the chemical analysis of blood and urine from passive smokers. Obviosuly, as already illustrated be the example of the children I gave two or three postings earlier, you underestimate the effects of passive smoking. Which most smokers do, and even most non-smokers. Most addicts and junkeys and alcoholics spend much time in playing it down and saying they are in control. They aren't. it's part of what in psychology is called "cognitive dissonance".
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What I did not mentioned is: cigarette smoke stinks, it stinks terribly, awfully, and sticks to cloathes, walls and curtains for hours and days.... Smokers also stink, their hair, their cloathing, their skin and from their mouth. That statement is no offending and is no discrimination: it is simpe fact.
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It is a fact, but, its a trade off. I once thought exactly like that. But what non-smokers don't realise is how enjoyable smoking is. I am not ashamed to admit I don't regret starting to smoke for a second. I accept it would be better if I hadn't, but smoking can be very enjoyable, both for light and heavy smokers. I enjoy it because I like doing it the mechanics, inhaling/exhaling, I like how it feels, and the rush I get off it. Its a bad habit I know, but its delivers satisfying feelings both to the light and regular smoker.
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It is learned behavior. It is no instinct of ours to start smoking. That's why cigarette companies are so eager and desperately try by aggressive advertisment to turn people before their 18th-20th birthday into addicts (they even have increased the ammount of addiction-raising nicotine in cigarettes over the last couple of years to compensate for youth protection laws). Beyond that age, the probability of people ever starting to smoke drops dramatically, and that is not good for the profits. Once you are an addcit (speaking as a ex psychologist here, your metabolsim is constantly affected, and starts complaining if you don't carry on taking your drug. You feel negative symptoms, you are cold, you feel angry, you feel tired or think you need to "relax". You opick up a filter, and consume your drug. Your body feels relieved. but for the most it is no additional pleasure, but the avoidance of unpleasurable feelings that are caused from being an addict, a junkey. Also, smoking has a social function today, it is considered to be social, and it is learned by the example of others you see smoking. It gives fingers something to do, it helps to avoid brakes in communication. It fulfills the purpose that the playing with malas has in certain Asian and islamic socieites: it gives your fingers something to do.
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Some people also react more sensible to smoke than others. I myself get red and itching eyes and a dripping wet nose, I react to it like hay fever. If there is also too much smell of cigarette smoke, it makes me feel sick.
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Too much exposure to smoke makes me poorly as well, but not to that extent obviously. Which is why I agree with the public ban, because you have multiple people all smoking and that is not good.
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So, I tolerate smokers. but only when they do not affect other people who do not want to smoke themselves, and pay for treatment of smoke-related deseases themselves,
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I am quite pro-smoking, I like it, and its something I get enjoyment from. Much like people enjoy expensive food loaded with cholesterol and people who enjoy boxing etc... risks, but, since I only smoke 3 cigarettes and 2 cigars a week. I am neither stinky, nor are my teeth in bad shape. I would never encourage anybody to take it up. In fact, I would probably try to talk them out of it. But I like my light smoking and that is that. I know what it can do to me, and I know its pricey, but I only live once, and as long as I am not being inconsiderate of others, no prob in my view.
Also, smoke related diseases, its so up in the air and inspecific. Non-smokers can get lung cancer too, even without over-exposure to 2nd hand smoke. Besides, I have been paying in my view into the UK's NHS for the past 3 years with every purchase of cigars or ciggies I have made, for treatment of any (heaven forbid) smoking related illness I may get.
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In your first posting in this thread, you also wrote:
"then which means my home will be decisively free of passive smoking related unwellness "
which I perceive a bit as self-contradictory when considering your defending of your light smoking. But that is your own business, so however, I have not much problems with what you said in the last passage above.
As I said, I do not demonize smokers. I only want them to respect their responsebility to do it not at the costs of those who do not wish to smoke, neither actively nor passively. Like you do not wish to loisten to that little punk's loud music in the neighbouring appartment (now I had two house wars because of that in the past, in another city... i hate such things).
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