Did you see him in the movies Jakob The Liar and 24 Hour Photo? Oddly, I liked him most when he left the comedy behind.

Thank you all for your kind words at this time, her battle was lost but our fight will go on.

Earlier in the week she tried self harm and we got her taken to hospital on the understanding that they would help her this time but she asked the doctor if she could go to the toilet and from there she escaped, the doctor rang my wife and told her to bring her back but as usual she could not be convinced, then the doctor told my wife that if anything happens it would be on her head. You can now imagine what this has done to my wife.
I soo want to find this " doctor " and headbutt him into the next century.

My sister in law lost her battle in a room not 5 metres from where i was sitting, i heard nothing and there was nothing to indicate that she was going to do this, she could have talked to me but kept silent.

After she was found we blamed ourselves for failing her but now understand that we did all we could and it was the system and her illness that failed her.

I consider all on here my friends and ask that you would raise a glass to my sister in law Carolyn Tait, hopefully your demons are now vanquished and you are in a place you wanted to be. We will miss you dearly.

Good to hear from you again, Harvs. I'd be wanting to make a formal complaint against that doctor; I'm pleased that you all realise he was plain wicked to say such a thing.

I'm sorry to hear that Harvs.

A toast
 

To Miss Carolyn Tait.:Kaleun_Cheers:

May you be at peace in the loving arms of the creator.

raising a glass
 

So upsetting to hear of a physician with so little empathy or respect for a patient and their respective families and what they are going through.

To Carolyn Tait and her family and yours and while I'm at it, to Laufen Zum Ziel and Kiwi too


May they all know the sunshine of God's love

Raises glass.
May you find the peace in death that you could not find in life Carolyn.

The punch line was telegraphed...

But I still laughed.:up::haha:

Yeah it was a pity about that:haha:

I am very sorry to hear of your loss

For your sake and the sake of your family, you need to get past this line of thought. You were there for her and you offered help. Worrying about what you could have done more will only bring you more sorrow.

My condolences.

I've had my moments too, so I can relate too. It's a very dark place, and we only recognize it as such after we start to see a bit of outside light.
You did what was humanly possible. You shouldn't blame yourselves for not being with her 24/7. That would be impossible for all of you. We all need rest, and we all need a bit of privacy.

This is becoming an all too common problem these days. As I see it, it is a side effect of the ferocious, unbridled capitalism our civilization is being plunged into. This creates a number of inhumane problems for the working class. We have to be strong and endure a nihilistic way of life for much too long, to the point of depletion of the necessary chemicals the brain needs to maintain emotional balance.
At the individual level, we need to stay alert, for ourselves and those near us.
Collectively, we need to change course and reclaim humanity.

She's in a better place now Harvs.
And don't beat yourself up anymore. You did everything right in my book.