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Sailor Steve 06-27-11 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by razark (Post 1692238)
And marriage (even heterosexual marriage) does not occur in nature.

A point I had not considered. Animals do make bonds, but only humans make contracts.

Penguin 06-27-11 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by razark (Post 1692238)
And marriage (even heterosexual marriage) does not occur in nature.

I think ducks have a civil union. :DL

razark 06-27-11 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1692279)
A point I had not considered. Animals do make bonds, but only humans make contracts.

Don't remember where I read this study, but there is a correlation between testicle size related to body size of primates and level of monogamous relationships. The higher the propensity for monogamous relationships, the smaller the testicles. If I am recalling correctly, gorillas were on the small end, and chimpanzees were on the large end of the scale. Humans fell a lot closer to the chimp end, showing that monogamous relationships are basically an artificial construct for the species.

Edit:
Found a reference to that study here:
http://scienceblogs.com/primatediari...les_or_who.php

BossMark 06-27-11 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Tribesman (Post 1692153)
So Bossmark it is just your own hangups and you cannot come up with real reasons.

Just dont agree with them getting married, I once went to a gay wedding a young lass from work got married and she was the groom and the other was of course the bride and as I have said it didn't seem natural, and I have witnessed it with my own eyes

Sailor Steve 06-27-11 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Penguin (Post 1692282)
I think ducks have a civil union. :DL

Where do they hide the papers?

While we're on the subject of birds, do Penguins...? Oh, never mind.
:rotfl2:

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Originally Posted by razark
...monogamous relationships are basically an artificial construct for the species.

I've long been of the opinion that marriage came about as a means to tie a couple together to guarantee the presence of the father so the children would be safe. That would imply that I believe that only a man and a woman should marry, but it would also imply that I believed that divorce should be illegal, at least where underage children are involved. But as I've said, what I believe shouldn't govern what other people do, especially where their beliefs are the only ones that count.

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Originally Posted by BossMark
Just dont agree with them getting married, I once went to a gay wedding a young lass from work got married and she was the groom and the other was of course the bride and as I have said it didn't seem natural, and I have witnessed it with my own eyes.

That's a perfectly valid opinion, and one I feel the same about. However, as I've said, just because you or I don't like it doesn't mean it should be illegal. A lot of people don't like rock and roll, but I'd very much hate to see it outlawed.

Penguin 06-27-11 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by razark (Post 1692284)
Don't remember where I read this study, but there is a correlation between testicle size related to body size of primates and level of monogamous relationships. The higher the propensity for monogamous relationships, the smaller the testicles. If I am recalling correctly, gorillas were on the small end, and chimpanzees were on the large end of the scale. Humans fell a lot closer to the chimp end, showing that monogamous relationships are basically an artificial construct for the species.

:hmmm: interesting study. However us humans still have this inner voice called emotion. I guess that's what ties most of us to a single partner, I woud not exclude that people are able to love more than one person, but love is also an egoistic feeling. I am not talking about possession, but about a feeling of "I don't want to share my partner with others (as I am better than them :O:)"

razark 06-27-11 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1692298)
I've long been of the opinion that marriage came about as a means to tie a couple together to guarantee the presence of the father so the children would be safe. That would imply that I believe that only a man and a woman should marry, but it would also imply that I believed that divorce should be illegal, at least where underage children are involved.

That line of reasoning would also create a problem for couples that are unable or unwilling to have children. Would that mean my parents are no longer married, as all their children have left home and they aren't having any more?

I believe that raising children had a lot to do with the origin of marriage. It also makes inheritance a lot easier to deal with when you can point and say "he's the father of this child".

MH 06-27-11 10:51 AM

Wow looks like gays are lot of fun.

Let then get married they will realise that its mistake very soon.
That it unless dude to dude thing works better-they might have beer evening while playing sub sims and having manly conversations....:haha:
No matter what the pros and cons are they should have the right.
Adopting children and effect on them remains to be seen yet.

Penguin 06-27-11 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1692298)
Where do they hide the papers?

While we're on the subject of birds, do Penguins...? Oh, never mind.
:rotfl2:

:haha: *nerd attack*
from the PenguinFAQ @ http://www.gdargaud.net/Antarctica/PenguinFAQ.html:
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Adelie penguins usually keep the same mate all their life, unless the mate dies. Emperor penguins are monogamous... for a year, meaning they usually change mate every year.
:know: doesn't also sound to bad, a new partner every mating season... -though I am an Adelie penguin since 11 years ;)

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1692298)
That's a perfectly valid opinion, and one I feel the same about. However, as I've said, just because you or I don't like it doesn't mean it should be illegal.

I agree. I prefer an honest opinion over some fake pseudo-tolerance out of peer pressure. I have a friend who is homophobic - he just doesn't like the sight/imagination. When we make a party at our home, he knows that guests are kings in our house and anybody there should be treated with respect. So when he is there, and two gals/girls are kissing he just looks the other way and refrains from pointless comments. This way everybody's happy - and as we are no teenagers anymore, most couples don't have to stick their tongue into each other's mouth all the time anyway ;)

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1692298)
A lot of people don't like rock and roll, but I'd very much hate to see it outlawed.

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"Of course, it would be wrong to suggest this sort of mayhem began with rock-and-roll. After all, there were riots at the premiere of Mozart's "The Magic Flute." So, what's the answer? Ban all music? In this reporter's opinion, the answer, sadly, is 'yes'."
(Kent Brockman in the Simpsons) :D

Lord_magerius 06-27-11 01:45 PM

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_4qQMdaBD3V...iage+graph.bmp

Gerald 06-27-11 01:52 PM

Communist red....

Armistead 06-27-11 02:35 PM

The one man one woman marriage has a religious base, not a constitutional one. The bigger issue is marriage was made a religious/government mix containing laws and themes from both institutions that often are in conflict. This same thinking resulted in slavery and women having no rights until secular courts took the religion out of a persons free right to happiness causing no harm to others.

It's not for me, the thought of two men getting it on makes me sick, but at the same time two women could turn me on, so it's really perspective, not that I ever watch that kind of stuff....much anymore.

Course these are limited state rights, so until it's a federal law nationwide, still not equal rights.
People act like we're gonna see a big difference. I have a gay couple in my hood that have lived here for 20 years, if they got married I would see no difference and would never know unless told.

What concerns me is the gay agenda, often pushing their themes into areas such as schools, etc. I understand the reasoning, the more that agree, the more that vote...Give them all their rights as you and I have and we should see the gay agenda die out as they will have no need for one.

Polygamy will soon be the next battle.

mookiemookie 06-27-11 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Lord_magerius (Post 1692461)

:rotfl2: Good one

Betonov 06-27-11 02:43 PM

But the gay marrying should be pink, ice caps melting should be blue and russia invades should be red

yubba 06-27-11 03:13 PM

Yes the people have cried out and the government answered, to get a new voter base, next the insurance companies won't want to cover these same sex couples, like they do for mixed couples and their children, and again the people will cry out.

Betonov 06-27-11 04:31 PM

One more statement.
While I support them having the same rights as us, when they'll start demanding priviliges I'll stick those priviliges in their asses in a way they won't enjoy them

Krauter 06-27-11 05:12 PM

A little lewd....:nope:

Buddahaid 06-27-11 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Betonov (Post 1692699)
One more statement.
While I support them having the same rights as us, when they'll start demanding priviliges I'll stick those priviliges in their asses in a way they won't enjoy them

Now who is the sicko?:shucks:

Tribesman 06-27-11 05:30 PM

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Just dont agree with them getting married, I once went to a gay wedding a young lass from work got married and she was the groom and the other was of course the bride and as I have said it didn't seem natural, and I have witnessed it with my own eyes
So Bossmark your justification over how sick it is and how just ain't right it is amounts to no reason you can express.
Its just your own little feelings that you cannot seem to explain rationaly.
It doesn't make a great case for you does it?

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The one man one woman marriage has a religious base, not a constitutional one.
Yet the same religious base has plenty that shoots that one man one woman base to pieces, when explored further the "religious" base concerns issues mainly about rights property inheritence and general business practices.
At the end of the day marriage is in effect just a business contract between individuals.

Krauter 06-28-11 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Tribesman (Post 1692739)
So Bossmark your justification over how sick it is and how just ain't right it is amounts to no reason you can express.
Its just your own little feelings that you cannot seem to explain rationaly.
It doesn't make a great case for you does it?


Yet the same religious base has plenty that shoots that one man one woman base to pieces, when explored further the "religious" base concerns issues mainly about rights property inheritence and general business practices.
At the end of the day marriage is in effect just a business contract between individuals.

Everyone is allowed to express how they feel... as long as they don't try to force that opinion on other, as some are doing here, then it's not against the law... It's a double edged sword gentlemen.


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