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What would you classify as cultural identity, out of interest, because the way the United Kingdom has been viewed internally and externally has changed over time. From the days of the Saxons, through to the British Empire and to today, culture in itself has always changed through history, in my opinion anyway, and things that were held in high regard yesterday are not necessarily held in the same regard today. I do see where you are coming from though Skybird, the punk era did seem to lead into the gradual dissolution of the close-knit society into the rather tribal chaotic society we see today, however, they alone were not solely responsible for this fall from grace, the import of tribal gangland warfare from the United States (which in turn was probably imported from the tribal warfare of Africa) as well as many others has placed us in the situation we are in, in which people are scared to walk the streets at night.
This nightly fear, however, is nothing new to London, at least, however it hasn't been as bad as this since the Victorian era, and you certainly couldn't blame Jack the Ripper on the Punks and Goths ;). |
Our current cultural identity I see as the result from historical processes over the past centuries, from the ancient Greek and romans to whom we owe to varying degrees until today, over the kingdom and nation forming in the medieval, the developement of humanities (Geisteswisssenschaften) and philosophy since the rennaissance and the enlightenment, ending in the principal validity of the system or call it tradtion of "humanism", Lessing's conception of "Vernunft" (reason), the separation of religion and politics, and a legal code that more or less reflect all this in it state and condition after WWII.
BTW, I have not necessarily a problem with Goths, or punks, i think they are weired in the choice of cloathing and style, but all that must not interest me, and in my school days two punky guys were relatively close buddies of mine, for they had their heart in the right place, to translate a german proverb (das Herz auf dem rechten Fleck haben, it means to be okay by character and/or to show courage). I would like to rmeind thiough that there is a link from the Goth scnene to the public suicide scene that is booming on internet, so it seems to be a reasonable thing to have an eye on them - so have the social workers and authorities over here whpo are dealing with drug consummation of juveneiles and psychosects ("Drogen- und Sektenbeauftragte"). not every goth plans to commit suicide, but the playacted or real fascination for death and darkness, and suicide cults, cannot be ignored. It is no normal, ordinary social group like any other, and if my children would drift towards it, I would be very seriously concerned. the private behavior of the couple described in the article shows psychopathological striking features, and unnormal one-sided dependency. All in all i wpould not care - just that thing to of a man leading around his girlfriend like a dog and accepting to provoke his social environment with that gets me up into arms, for such practices I consider to be a part of privatsphere, but not public life, and eventually a clinical indication is given. He was successful, of course - I feel provoked, and very much so. I couldn'T feel more provoked by a tart sitting half naked in a stimulating latex suite on a park bank and having her naked breasts hanging out of her rubber dress and saying it is a free country, I have to tolerate her - I would not. ;) |
True, Gothicism (not quite sure if that is a word) comes in all shapes and sizes, and I would certainly not refute the link between extreme Goths and online suicides, there's some very dark stuff out there. It's the persons 'heart' to use a rather clichéd expression, that helps to determine their path. Like your two punk friends, I know people who like Goth stuff, however, the most of them aren't fully Goth so to speak, they just like the music and clothing and I think that applies to many Goths these days.
However, aside from the Health and Safety aspect (which can be solved with a breakable velcro collar, like the ties they give people who might work with violent people) I don't see how this would affront as much as, the lady in latex with her breasts hanging out, she is not crawling around on all fours, she's just walking with her boyfriend with a chain attached to her, and it's something she wants. If it was done against her will then I would be fully against it, but it's something she wants and I think, for the most part it's certainly not as offensive as some things I have seen. You mention the progression of culture within Germany, coming from the Greeks and Romans down through a steadily expanding growth of liberalisation untill today, with the seperation of religion and politics and a legal code which reflects the progression of society. All this points towards a gradual expansion of liberal thinking, in the way I see it. Once it was the right for freedom of thought, now it is freedom of expression, however, like all freedoms there are those who take liberties with it, those who push the envelope to see how far they can get under the protection of 'Political Correctness', we see a lot of this in Britain today, people taking things out of all proportions. The latex mostly topless lady, in your example, would come into this category (although one could argue about the exposure of breasts in breast-feeding, but that's for another time and place) as she knows that exposure is (at this stage in society) still a socially wrong thing to do, however, in some respects this is where liberalisation has gone backwards, in times past perhaps such exposure would not be frowned upon, certainly if even half of the tales out of the Roman Empire are to be believed, then well, :-? However, one can argue fore and aft on the freedom of expression for years, and then find that society has changed once again, and the very thing we were trying to validate is now a social norm. Looking at Britain, since I'm not so well read on the social status of Germany over the years, but this incidence with the leads would probably have resulted in the young lady being locked up in a padded cell less than fifty-sixty years ago, particularly since it was taking place openly in a public place. However, the bar has been raised, and now it's not as much of a taboo as it was then. One only has to look at fashions to judge this, some will remember the stir the miniskirt caused forty years ago, although now it's positively a gown compared to some outfits on the streets. Society, in my view, continues to progress with each decade, which way it is progressing is, of course, a matter of opinion and heavily influenced by the society which the viewer grew up in and the upbringing that person had, hence the popularity of shows such as "Life on Mars" and "Heartbeat" as people will always maintain that things were better in the past than they are today because they are more comfortable with the society they were brought up in rather than the way that society has progressed today. This does not necessarily mean that they are wrong, for right and wrong is in the eye of the beholder, and at the end of the day, I believe that the young man and his lady have a right to express their relationship such, as it is not as much as an affront to current society as perhaps, getting on the bus completely naked, or, getting on the bus and stabbing the bus driver, to use to extremes. Whether or not, this trend of society is mirroring the fall of Rome and the descent into the Dark Ages, or to use a more biblical reference, Sodom and Gomorrah, remains to be seen, however, in my opinion, in the grand scheme of things, this is but a minor enfringement upon society, particularly society as it is. Just my opinion anyway, and I understand and respect what you are saying Sky. :up: |
:damn: Here's you mentioning you have sore finger-tips and here's me creating long discussions! :damn:
Sorry mate, cool ya fingers and we can continue this whenever :) |
As an ex-punk rocker/goth boy, I have no problem with those two's freedom of expression and find the bus company's stance deplorable. If she decides to wear a freakin' leash, how is this a danger to others on the bus !?! It's not like they're going to be draping it accross the lane to trip passengers !
In my past, I've had times where I looked wierder and did stranger things than they're doing and of course, I recieved the same kind of discrimination on occasion. (Once, me and my friends weren't allowed into a club because they thought my friend was a nazi skinhead Just because he was bald and was dressed in the typical punk torn up leather jacket and wearing combat boots. He was a "Straightedge".. not one of those nazi idiots and had NO nazi ANYTHING on him. He didn't drink alcohol, do any drugs, didn't get into fights, was not violent and deplored racism.) It just goes to show, if you try to express yourself in any way other than a "mainstream" way, to a large majority of people, you will get automatically associated with those small handful of idiots who ruin it for those of us just expressing ourselves.:stare: |
Oberon,
Well, we disagree on this, then. You say you see the examples given as being in line and being the result of past developements. I see them in explicit violation or better: abusing of these develeopements that led to the status quo to whom I consider this behavior being provoking. I said it twioce above, and again now: when reading the story the first time, I immediately felt personally provoked, and when imagining to be sitting beside them in a poublic place, I would feel uncomfortable, irritated, and being confronted by what I consider to be unacceptable public behavior or display. That means nothing else than that my limits of tolerance and social shame - that everybody of us has to varying degrees - have been reached, and they were stepping over that proverbial red line. and I nwpuld react to that. Like i wpould react to a naked couple sitting in the hus, or already have reacted to people making noise in the movies, or that guy in the train who mistook the compartment with his personal sleeping area and letting his feet and hands fly around all over the banks. On the other hands I have seen goths and pounks who looked really querer, nevertheless behaved acceptable, sometimes even friendly and helpful. Clothing alone can be a problem (lcking clothing, or sexually provoking clothing), but in these cases named in this thread is not. Can't help it, we disagree. ;) |
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Can't agree on everything ;) But I'll still buy you a pint if ever I meet you because you make a very valid and well put case. :)
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I don't see the issue here.
I dislike the backtracking done by the bus company. I think I'd have to be having a terrible day to feel insulted by how a couple I've never met look. |
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What's the difference between this couple and a naked couple? Simple: society has declared certain standards of decency and requires that people follow those standards in public. This couple has violated none of those standards; it's a simple case of "I don't like the way you look/act/dress/etc."
Sorry, Sky, but your thread title is backwards and the other are right: you're the one who is exercizing the Political Correctness here. I wouldn't have thought it from someone who is so progressive in other areas. So he calls her his pet - she likes it; it was her idea in the first place. They have hurt no one. The bus driver owes them an apology, pure and simple. |
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she needs a chain...if I was a gal and he was my boy, he'd have to chain me too.
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