get ICQ or MSN and il hook up with you

Grab GameSpy Arcade here : http://www.gamespyarcade.com/download/

While it does come bundled with the Retail Version (the new one) its of course not included in the BFC version, hence you have to download it and if you actually want to use it with DW you need the 1.03BETA (or when its done the Final) Patch.