Yea, laying in bed in he dark with the nag the other week and she asked me did I think she was still pretty. I told her she still looked good in the dark. Before menopause she would've laughed. She use to be great in the sack, now she's a pain in the ass.

Make sure when you visit the next ancestral slave cemetery in one of your family tree outings, there ain't a pre-dug hole! 'Nag' vengeance is a grisly thing! :arrgh!:

I wasnt born in 80, just a number i chose when i signed up at ubi back in the day, think it wouldnt let me use my birth year for some reason, carried name over so people would know me here. Well, she is in mid 30's im pushing into later 20's. I don't want children and dont see that changing to be honest. I think the big issue is melding our lives enough to actually date and not stay the casual level we are now. She likes my friends but of course it's a different thing, my friends are all my age and mostly single, so when we go out its to a pub etc, he friends are mostly married, want us over for a dinner party , which is fine, I like both but we both have gotten annoyed with each others friends. Politics are an issue too so we just kind of steer clear of that, she's a liberal and that annoys me but most women are so its just something to deal with.

Heard some valid points here.Most of my friends consists of "she is a hot well off 35 year old, go for it" and if it was just sex would be one thing but turns out there are feelings on both ends, all that nonsense lol.

Be careful, it's easy to get invested, then try to fix issues. My brother has been doing it for years. The relationship is bad, but he thinks because he's invested years and feels in love, he won't give it up. They had a lot of chemistry to start, but were very different. They've broke wedding dates several times. He's rather conservative, she's liberal. He ain't gonna move on, just let the high and lows continue until he breaks

If you're going to lecture people, at least fix your quotes so they look right. :know:

Danke Herr moderator-mentor! At least I don' t take up space with the photos anymore. Still having problems with downloads to my SH5 though. :wah:

Not sure I'm qualified much here seeing as my wife is only 6 months older than me but I believe if the chemistry is right, we are now in our thirtieth year together, age needn't be all that big a consideration.

Ignore the evil man behind the curtain.

I enjoy your postings, even if I don't understand them.

I've had a good relationship with an older woman - I didn't last but I put that down to my immaturity at the time. It was fun until the end, as long as you both know where you stand now then you'll be okay - just watch as your standpoints may move so as always communication is key.

Good luck :up:

Good lord, I'm in Kansas without a Lemat or Toto. Actually all relationships are with an 'older woman' since they regard us as their principal child anyway with a little pet therapy thrown in. After 33 years, I'm still happily clueless...and luvin' it!??:k_confused:

Good woman pulls plow.

Best advice I can give is to follow your heart/gut instinct.

Relationships resist a logical analysis.

Finding someone to sleep with is easy, finding someone with that special something that makes you fall in love with them is rare and special, especially if it is mutual.

If it feels right, go for it, a few years difference is unimportant.