Skybird |
06-06-08 12:37 PM |
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Originally Posted by Safe-Keeper
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I think it is far more likely that they cast curses on us for our self-deconstruction, our unlimited relativizing of norms that keep a survivable social community together, for our shortsightedness and stupidity. In this context - and in several others as well.
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Blah, blah, blah. You gay marriage opponents keep saying gay marriage is ruining society and causing divorce, but I've yet seen as much as a single one of you back it up with facts.
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I understand that you just have read an article about divorce rates and their causes and figured that might be a possible reply to claim that is a valid rehtoric trick to squash opposition to relativising the institution of the family, and gay marriages. That way you have answered arguments that I have not claimed, and thus, I have nothing to do with you lament.
Thanks to your [quote:] "blah blah blah" [end of quote] introduction, I take the freedom to save me from answering the rest of what you said. If you also answered claims I did not make, it would be an useless effort anyway. it's the preferred way of us homophobic [quote]"chauvinists"[end of quote] to avoid tough arguments we cannot bear from clever minds like you, you know.
What I said in reality, remains to be untouched by your remarks. ;) You also learned some historic facts about how long people remained together in not so far away times? Do you know what a "golden marriage" means, and an "iron marriage", how many years? And that was the norm still until and short after WWI. I people change partners quicker today than the ebb and flow are changing , this only shows again that the institution of "family" is under attack from many sides, massively. Couples breaking up so easily like it is often oday show me only that they never should have married and raise children at all. There comes the first wave, and away with the water the castles in the sand are. Often (not always) paying for the social consequences - must the community, and the children themselves, often in lacking future chances. the sexual revolution and emanizpation in the last century was not a bad thing in pricinple, but it both has caused serious distortions in social structures that came as the price for it, and that to compensate for and to reapir the damages it created nobody so far have found a blueprint-recipe valid for all, even for most cases.
Now you finally made me saying something on divorce finally, afterwards, retrospectively. Must be a self-fulfilling prophecy of yours. :88)
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