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Takeda Shingen 10-24-12 07:09 AM

I think that if we all went around treating others with the type of respect that we want to see given to ourselves, there wouldn't be a need to go around ignoring each other. And I think that was the OP's intent in making this thread.

FYI, I didn't vote either.

Sailor Steve 10-24-12 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Skybird (Post 1952066)
You remind me of a conflict I had with Steve two years ago. Steve defends freedom, and says he wants it, absolutely yes. I even believe him that. But by wanting that freedom, really, absolutely, by demanding absolute freedom indeed, he refuses to realise that by that he necessarily destroys freedom.

You really do live in a fantasy world, don't you. I said at the time that what I said was meant to be a starting point, and that I knew full well that nothing is absolute and something always has to yield, yet to this day you ignore everything else I said on the subject.

You also refused to discuss the idea that you wanted just the opposite: to remove freedom in the name of protecting it, which is what absolutists always do in the name of protecting us from ourselves.

It's easy to "win" an argument when you ignore what the other guy said and only argue against what you want him to have said.

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I just want to explain something to Takeda, no intention to start that old fight with you again. So give your different opinion if you want, but I will not start to debate it all AGAIN with you.
This is the second time in two days that you've picked a fight and then claimed you didn't want to fight. That makes you dishonest. Deny that if you will, but it seems that you only feel you can "win" if you cheat. So first you lie, then you cheat. What's next? For me debating isn't about "winning", it's about discussing all the options. For you it seems to be about proving that you're right, and not much else.

I'll leave you with two quotes, both from Joseph Joubert, and both lessons you desperately need to learn.

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It is better to debate a question without settling it than to settle a question without debating it.
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The aim of argument, or of discussion, should be not victory, but progress.

Fubar2Niner 10-24-12 08:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1952111)

It's easy to "win" an argument when you ignore what the other guy said and only argue against what you want him to have said.

Hmmm..... reminds me of tory politicians, but that's another thread :03:

joea 10-24-12 08:57 AM

Here are some good links:

First Link: Toxic Atheism Drives People Apart/


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So I started small, asking them to consider that diversity of thought and background fosters an environment where discourse thrives, where ideas are exchanged, and where we learn from one another.

I was stonewalled: “We have the superior perspective; everyone else is lost,” said the woman with a flick of her hand that suggested she was swatting at an invisible mosquito.

As a former Evangelical Christian, these words were hauntingly familiar, and they represented a kind of sure-handed certainty and dismissal — a kind of fundamentalist thinking, really — that I’d hoped to leave behind with my “born again” beliefs. Quote:
Achieving a more cooperative world will require a dramatic change in how both atheists and the religious talk about atheism and religion. The problems of religious fundamentalism are apparent, and have already been responded to by many individuals far more qualified to do so than I. But what of atheism’s antipluralism voices, like Sam Harris, who has said that “talk about the dangers of ‘Islamophobia’” (discrimination or bias against Muslims or those who are perceived as being Muslim, which is a widely recognized, well-documented phenomenon in countries like the United States, United Kingdom and Australia) is “deluded”?

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I believe that this so-called New Atheism — the kind that singles out the religious lives of others as its No. 1 target — is toxic, misdirected, and wasteful. Disengaged or antagonistic atheism weakens our community’s claim that an ethical life is possible without a belief in God, supplanting this with an alienating narrative that both distracts us from investing in community-building efforts of our own and prevents us from accomplishing anything outside of our small community.

http://www.skepticblog.org/2009/12/0...undagnostical/

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It is my goal, and the goal of the Skeptics Society, to educate as many people as possible about the power and wonders of science and to employ science to solve social, political, economic, medical and environmental problems. As such, we need as many people as we can get on board with a common goal, whatever it may be (starvation in Africa, disease in India, poverty in South America, global warming everywhere … pick your battle). My concern is that if we insist that people of faith renounce every last ounce of their beliefs before they are allowed to join the common fight against these scourges of humanity, we have just alienated the vast majority of the world’s population from our project.
Sometimes religion is the problem — and when it is let’s not hesitate to call it out. I did so myself on the day before Thanksgiving on Hugh Hewitt’s radio show in a debate with Dinesh D’Souza when Hewitt insisted that we thank God for our abundance and that believing in God leads to a prosperous nation like America. I pointed out — without accommodationism, faitheism, or fundagnosticalism — that 99% of everyone in Peru is Christian and yet they are dirt poor. Why? Because of warring political factions, governmental corruption, lack of education, resource depletion, currency debasement, inflation, and especially the lack of property rights and the rule of law.
So let’s not accommodate or pander in those areas where religion is clearly a problem or unmistakably mistaken. But not all (or even very many) social problems are caused by religion, so let’s pick our battles carefully and choose our strategies wisely.
Gotta say as a religious person, I not only have atheist friends I am sometimes more comfortable with them than with many religious people - an advantage of living in Europe-so paradoxically I can understand this fellow. Maybe the problem is not belief vs. unbelief but something else?

Skybird 10-24-12 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sailor Steve (Post 1952111)
You really do live in a fantasy world, don't you. I said at the time that what I said was meant to be a starting point, and that I knew full well that nothing is absolute and something always has to yield, yet to this day you ignore everything else I said on the subject.

You also refused to discuss the idea that you wanted just the opposite: to remove freedom in the name of protecting it, which is what absolutists always do in the name of protecting us from ourselves.

It's easy to "win" an argument when you ignore what the other guy said and only argue against what you want him to have said.

See what I mean? :03: Back then you argued time and again to me that if I will to limit individual freedom slightly in an attempt to see for best total amount of freedom possible for all, I necessarily by that "remove freedom in the name of protecting it" (and you meant that as destroying freedom completely, not just limiting it slightly), as you just have put it ONCE AGAIN in your own words. That illustrates a.) your concept of freedom as being an "all or nothing at all" kind of thing (which opposes your claim that you "knew full well that nothing is absolute and something always has to yield"), and b.) that until today you have not managed to get that self-contradiction in your thinking, this incongurence between your intention and the result your proposal would (and does) acchieve. I know you mean it well and want to defend freedom. But you just don't get the self-contradiction in your reasoning and resulting argument/acting, you just don't get it. You're deadlocked there, sticking to an absolute and total understanding of freedom where you claim by your words - please note, finally: I am perfectly aware of that and was aware back then and always were! - you have no absolute definition of freedom at all and knew it were a relative quality in a social community. This incongruence in your self-description and your reasoning is what I always have called "your self-contradiction". I tried to illustrate that by Popper'S tolerance paradoxon. You do not even react to the fact that the paradoxon indeed is a paradoxon, while telling me you knew it is paradoxon, but then fall for it, and in full!

That is so - well, that is so "you"! :) I could pull my hairs out over this. In a way it is funny. But then, considering what it is about and what is at stakes, it is not.

And also note this: that I believe you and always have believed you when you implied or said you mean it well and want freedom defended. I just refuse to take that as the final word, the ultimate solution of the paradoxon, while you seem to live by the rule that it is right that. Still, the self-contradiction in your ways remains, as I see it, with you not being aware of that.

Can we accept, pleaaaazzze, this difference that exists between us without needing to fight over it AGAIN, endlessly, repeatedly? We will not solve it, it seems.

Skybird 10-24-12 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by joea (Post 1952125)

Second link: From Faitheist to Fundagnostical



Gotta say as a religious person, I not only have atheist friends I am sometimes more comfortable with them than with many religious people - an advantage of living in Europe-so paradoxically I can understand this fellow. Maybe the problem is not belief vs. unbelief but something else?

It seems I would have little problems with that guy, and him little problems with me, joea. In fact, I assume I have dealt with more believing Christians in my life than I am aware of, and just don't know because neither them nor me ever made such questions an issue or topic, nor did we fell under their spell.

It seems it is not needed to do so, to constantly tell others what one is and what one believes and that the other should try it, which is my point when saying: keep thy religion to thyself, keep it in your cabin, in your heart, don't bother others or the world with it, your belief is intimate a relation you chose to maintain between yourself and the object you have chosen to believe in. Okay, do so. No problem if you do not bother others with it. I sometimes sing under the shower. Because I know at the time I do that I am almost alone in all the house. and when I am naked in my flat, I do so when I am sure that indeed I am all alone. I do not bother guests with that sight.

Indeed, the problem may not be belief versus unbelief, but something else. I would identify it like this: the claim to be given more status and control and prestige and power and control on basis of one's beliefs, than these beliefs objectively can justify, since they are only beliefs. The claim that the other must become similiar to oneself, and must believe the same things like oneself. The claim that one may chnage the rules of secular and free society on behalf of religious ideology.

Sailor Steve 10-24-12 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Skybird (Post 1952129)
See what I mean? :03:

And you're doing it again! Back then I said that nothing is absolute, and I was willing to discuss it. You only attacked one thing I said and ignored the rest. What you're attacking now is only a small part of what I said. You only address a small part. This makes you a cheat.

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That is so - well, that is so "you"! :) I could pull my hairs out over this. In a way it is funny. But then, considering what it is about and what is at stakes, it is not.
You keep attacking, and fighting, while I would like to have a real discussion. You don't seem capable of that. Your whole tirade here is just that. I say what I mean, and you say I don't really mean that, but you need to address what I really mean even if I can't see it. You ignore what I say, or dismiss it, and insist that you know what I mean better than I do. That's just dishonest on your part, and it seems to be all you know how to do.

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Can we accept, pleaaaazzze, this difference that exists between us without needing to fight over it AGAIN, endlessly, repeatedly? We will not solve it, it seems.
So you bring up an old argument for no apparent reason, make all your points all over again, and then ask for a halt?

That's like hitting someone over the head with a bat, and when they don't die, or fall down, but instead turn to face you, you drop the bat, hold up your hands and say "Wait! I don't want to fight!"

That smacks of cowardice.

joea 10-24-12 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Skybird (Post 1952135)
It seems I would have little problems with that guy, and him little problems with me, joea. In fact, I assume I have dealt with more believing Christians in my life than I am aware of, and just don't know because neither them nor me ever made such questions an issue or topic, nor did we fell under their spell.

It seems it is not needed to do so, to constantly tell others what one is and what one believes and that the other should try it, which is my point when saying: keep thy religion to thyself, keep it in your cabin, in your heart, don't bother others or the world with it, your belief is intimate a relation you chose to maintain between yourself and the object you have chosen to believe in. Okay, do so. No problem if you do not bother others with it. I sometimes sing under the shower. Because I know at the time I do that I am almost alone in all the house. and when I am naked in my flat, I do so when I am sure that indeed I am all alone. I do not bother guests with that sight.

Indeed, the problem may not be belief versus unbelief, but something else. I would identify it like this: the claim to be given more status and control and prestige and power and control on basis of one's beliefs, than these beliefs objectively can justify, since they are only beliefs. The claim that the other must become similiar to oneself, and must believe the same things like oneself. The claim that one may chnage the rules of secular and free society on


Good to know, and agree btw I misquoted that last line:

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Gotta say as a religious person, I not only have atheist friends I am sometimes more comfortable with them than with many religious people - an advantage of living in Europe-so paradoxically I can understand this fellow. Maybe the problem is not belief vs. unbelief but something else?
That was from me-I'll fix the quote in the article in case someone actually clicks on the link. You and Steve may continue your argument. :03:

Skybird 10-24-12 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by joea (Post 1952155)
Good to know, and agree btw I misquoted that last line:

And I skipped the last words in my last sentence. Corrected. Adds a new meaning to "Steve left me speechless." :D

Tribesman 10-24-12 10:44 AM

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ONCE AGAIN
When habitual lies and self contradictions are failing badly there is always CAPSLOCK to be brought out as a last scream:rotfl2:

Armistead 10-24-12 03:17 PM

I don't want to argue with anyone and not going to involve myself with this, except to day I think Skybird is totally correct.

However, I still promote Steve for Subsim president.:salute:

Tribesman 10-24-12 05:07 PM

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I don't want to argue with anyone and not going to involve myself with this, except to day I think Skybird is totally correct.
So you think Takeda is lying?


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