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Jeff-Groves
09-24-21, 11:02 AM
On thing that can set me off on a wanting to go full Psycho?
Yell at me!

I can talk in depth about any issue on job sites and work to adjust.
But the very second anyone starts yelling at me?
I'm ready to dig a hole and bury whatever is left of them!

I don't get along with people that attempt to dominate me in that manor.
And they go right on my **** list forever!

Arlo
09-24-21, 11:11 AM
On thing that can set me off on a wanting to go full Psycho?
Yell at me!

I can talk in depth about any issue on job sites and work to adjust.
But the very second anyone starts yelling at me?
I'm ready to dig a hole and bury whatever is left of them!

I don't get along with people that attempt to dominate me in that manor.
And they go right on my **** list forever!

Thanks for sharing. Probably shouldn't be armed. :shucks:

Aktungbby
09-24-21, 11:36 AM
I can talk in depth about any issue on(demolition) job sites and work to adjust.
But the very second anyone starts yelling at me?
I'm ready to dig a hole and bury whatever is left of them!
I don't get along with people that attempt to dominate me in that manor.
And they go right on my **** list forever! https://i.etsystatic.com/20423022/r/il/11874b/1983437084/il_1140xN.1983437084_97zq.jpg Come to my Manor BBY!! I'll dominate ya!:D Just remember to wear yer chain mail outfit!! http://i.imgur.com/1WIQ9fW.jpg
Thanks for sharing. Probably shouldn't be armed. :shucks: Nevermind his airguns; it's his demolition explosives that ya gotta worry about!:doh: Please use language that you would use around your mother. No vulgarities, obscenities, hate speech, or foul language. Do not use *******ing w*rds with aster*cks, that's the same thing as vulgar languge.
Forgive him; He's been drinking again!:nope:

Jeff-Groves
09-24-21, 11:48 AM
No drinking involved at this point.
I'm a functional Psychopath until someone yells at me in an attempt to dominate me!

Arlo
09-24-21, 11:54 AM
https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/Ermey_drill_Sgt2_4683.jpg

Jeff-Groves
09-24-21, 12:32 PM
I have over 20 years with Nancy. 16 married to her.
There is not any point we have ever yelled at one another since the year 2000!
A lot of just not talking until calmed down but NEVER yelling!
I felt so bad yelling at her back then I swore I'd never do that again.
She is the love of my Life. My best friend.
I'll never hurt her by yelling at her.

And Arlo,
I don't carry weapons.
I don't believe in carrying weapons myself. But I do believe in the right to do so.

Arlo
09-24-21, 12:39 PM
I have over 20 years with Nancy. 16 married to her.
There is not any point we have ever yelled at one another since the year 2000!
A lot of just not talking until calmed down but NEVER yelling!
I felt so bad yelling at her back then I swore I'd never do that again.
She is the love of my Life. My best friend.
I'll never hurt her by yelling at her.

Good man.

Jeff-Groves
09-24-21, 12:48 PM
I don't think I'm anything special.
I just know yelling only gets you to bad places.
Took me 2 marriages to figure that out.
Job sites? I can't tell you the number of times I've went through that crap!
And they never forget me when it has went there!
But I'm still highly requested and respected because of my stance.

Jimbuna
09-24-21, 12:53 PM
I have over 20 years with Nancy. 16 married to her.
There is not any point we have ever yelled at one another since the year 2000!
A lot of just not talking until calmed down but NEVER yelling!
I felt so bad yelling at her back then I swore I'd never do that again.
She is the love of my Life. My best friend.
I'll never hurt her by yelling at her.



Remember this guy from one of our nights out together Jeff? Obviously not Todd.

https://i.postimg.cc/0QPHCqdM/Subsim2008065.jpg (https://postimages.org/)

Now that is one guy I thought you or I were ging to be shouting at and your face below told it all :03:

https://i.postimg.cc/J0h69cFR/Subsim2008066.jpg (https://postimages.org/)

August
09-24-21, 08:07 PM
On thing that can set me off on a wanting to go full Psycho?
Yell at me!

I can talk in depth about any issue on job sites and work to adjust.
But the very second anyone starts yelling at me?
I'm ready to dig a hole and bury whatever is left of them!

I don't get along with people that attempt to dominate me in that manor.
And they go right on my **** list forever!


My advice is to never become a riot cop. :yep:

Jeff-Groves
09-25-21, 10:35 AM
Remember this guy from one of our nights out together Jeff? Obviously not Todd.

https://i.postimg.cc/0QPHCqdM/Subsim2008065.jpg (https://postimages.org/)

Now that is one guy I thought you or I were ging to be shouting at and your face below told it all :03:

https://i.postimg.cc/J0h69cFR/Subsim2008066.jpg (https://postimages.org/)

That Guy was claiming to be a Deep Sea Diver or something wasn't he?
Totally invited himself into our space with no invitation.

Jimbuna
09-25-21, 10:40 AM
That Guy was claiming to be a Deep Sea Diver or something wasn't he?
Totally invited himself into our space with no invitation.

Either that or an ex-Seal and iirc on that very night he was down on his luck and waiting for some bar manager he was hoping to get a job from.

Jimbuna
09-25-21, 10:48 AM
This picture is a clear indicator of the rise in tensions. It's a pity Tarjak/Grant who took the picture didn't get our 'friend' inshot.

https://i.postimg.cc/Vk1f7tJZ/Subsim2008069.jpg (https://postimages.org/)

Platapus
09-25-21, 11:59 AM
I grew up in a family of yellers. It did have an effect on me and is probably one of the reasons why I don't yell at people.



But I agree, if someone yells at me, I have unpleasant flashbacks.

em2nought
09-25-21, 12:28 PM
I'm not at all fond of people who need to dominate other people. I have a friend who I made exception for because at least he knew his ****, but that exception for him has grown exceedingly tiresome over the years. :yep:

mapuc
09-25-21, 12:48 PM
I grew up in a family of yellers. It did have an effect on me and is probably one of the reasons why I don't yell at people.



But I agree, if someone yells at me, I have unpleasant flashbacks.

Almost the same here, only different here it was my parents who on daily basis yelled at each other...couple of years later they got divorced.

So when someone yell at me or at some others I get unpleasant flashbacks

Markus

Platapus
09-25-21, 01:17 PM
Parents need to understand the effect that can have on their kids.



I am just glad that, unlike some other parents, I was able to break the cycle and not continue like my parents did

Jeff-Groves
09-26-21, 10:15 AM
I had a few times Site Supervisors yelled at me.
Those went REAL BAD for them! Case in point:

I was at a Home Depot getting materials when a Super called me on the phone.
He started yelling at me and cussing me out for reporting him to his Boss.
I told him to stay right at the site I'd be there in 15 minutes then hung up.
I left the materials without checking out, got in the Van and headed back.
I called my Boss and told him what was going on and told him I was going to beat that Guy to near death! I then hung up and shut off my phone!

I arrived at the Site, kicked the door open, and walked in with my Estwing hammer in hand with the full intent of caving in his skull!
My Boss had warned him I was coming and the arse hole ran as soon as he saw me walk in!

The next day HIS BOSS flew from Ohio to Florida to resolve the issue.
The results were he lost his job and to this day his Boss just likes the heck out of me!

That Company has told EVERY Project Manager and Supervisor yelling at me is NOT ACCEPTABLE and will have a bad out come one way or the other!

I still do a lot of work all over the USA for them and am on the preferred list for demolition projects.
Most recent jobs coming up are in Kokomo, Indiana and Reno, Nevada.
:D

If an employee gets me to the point I feel I need to yell at him?
I end up with one less employee.

August
09-26-21, 11:03 AM
Well getting irritated at being yelled at is one thing, but to me setting out on a declared intent to murder someone with a freaking hammer implies a seriously dangerous lack of self control. I'd have fired you on the spot for even making such a threat about a coworker and would have reported the incident to the law.

Maybe you're just talking crap but God forbid you actually carried it out. I would not want to have to explain to a grieving family member why I didn't say anything when there was a still chance to stop you.

Platapus
09-26-21, 11:30 AM
If this story is true, you are lucky that criminal charges were not placed on you

Aktungbby
09-26-21, 12:08 PM
/\ hmmm.....:hmmm: As a former Fed guard/bailiff, with many schizophrenic crazy people in SS offices, Sikhs with religious kirpans, old Chinese ladies with .45's in their purse(I'm on the baggage x-ray) Fed employees not on their happy pills freakin-out in the lobby; and in-house USPS personnel "goin' postal"; one bomb removal from S.F. Immigration and 3 building bomb shutdowns on my resume; when I heard old Jeff was coming to Sacramento a few years back to do mall demolition, I was immediately dispatched to make sure all was copacetic, his reputation having preceeded him...and I managed to survive the close (handshake) encounter...reasonably intact!:O: Jeff is really a god fearing, law abiding man of peace and occasional harmony!! Here is his favorite hymn:arrgh!: The good looking front-row gal is my daughter-lead Soprano of the National Champion NHS Choir https://youtu.be/Q-VVgF2c6eg

Jeff-Groves
09-26-21, 03:45 PM
Glad to see people still can not read a post without jumping to conclusions!
:har:
Where did I stated I was going to murder someone?

And exactly what charges could be filed against me?
Walking into a job site with a hammer?
:har::har::har:

Arlo
09-26-21, 04:05 PM
Where did I state I was going to murder someone?
:


I arrived at the Site, kicked the door open, and walked in with my Estwing hammer in hand with the full intent of caving in his skull!


:o:o:o

Jeff-Groves
09-26-21, 04:12 PM
That thought was never conveyed nor spoken to anyone.
So no crime committed.
:har:

Arlo
09-26-21, 04:27 PM
That thought was never conveyed nor spoken to anyone.
So no crime committed.
:har:

Kicking in a door with a hammer in hand can be attributed as intent, especially after your telephone conversation with your boss. You need to develop and practice effective critical thinking skills (for your own good as well as the good of others). That or you need to post less about wishful fantasies of a violent nature on a forum full of strangers. Just some friendly advice. :):shucks:

Skybird
09-26-21, 04:28 PM
My therapy instructor once said I was auto-aggressive. I don't know what he meant by that, but I gave him one to be on the safe side. :D





:O:
Old psychologist joke.

August
09-26-21, 04:47 PM
Glad to see people still can not read a post without jumping to conclusions!
:har:
Where did I stated I was going to murder someone?

And exactly what charges could be filed against me?
Walking into a job site with a hammer?
:har::har::har:




I called my Boss and told him what was going on and told him I was going to beat that Guy to near death! I then hung up and shut off my phone!


Oh "near" death, our bad. :haha:


I arrived at the Site, kicked the door open, and walked in with my Estwing hammer in hand with the full intent of caving in his skull!
My Boss had warned him I was coming and the arse hole ran as soon as he saw me walk in!
You're lucky he didn't put a bullet into you. Come at me with a hammer like that and I certainly would have.

Jeff-Groves
09-27-21, 11:50 AM
Well. I'm a Reverend now for 8 years and those days are long passed.
In fact I'm hiring a Guy that broke into my home 17 years ago an assaulted my Step Son.

I figure he did his time in the Joint so why hold a grudge.

August
09-27-21, 11:57 AM
Well. I'm a Reverend now for 8 years and those days are long passed.
In fact I'm hiring a Guy that broke into my home 17 years ago an assaulted my Step Son.

I figure he did his time in the Joint so why hold a grudge.

Sounds like you have mastered yourself then. That's all anyone can ask of anyone.

Jeff-Groves
09-29-21, 04:35 PM
I wouldn't say I've Mastered Myself.
I think over the years I've found better ways to express myself and deflect aggression from others.
Most people that resort to yelling expect yelling as a response.
Throws them completely off balance when you come back with a calm voice and logic to answer them.

em2nought
09-29-21, 07:37 PM
Revenge is best served cold. :03:

Gorpet
09-29-21, 11:30 PM
I had a few times Site Supervisors yelled at me.
Those went REAL BAD for them! Case in point:

I was at a Home Depot getting materials when a Super called me on the phone.
He started yelling at me and cussing me out for reporting him to his Boss.
I told him to stay right at the site I'd be there in 15 minutes then hung up.
I left the materials without checking out, got in the Van and headed back.
I called my Boss and told him what was going on and told him I was going to beat that Guy to near death! I then hung up and shut off my phone!

I arrived at the Site, kicked the door open, and walked in with my Estwing hammer in hand with the full intent of caving in his skull!
My Boss had warned him I was coming and the arse hole ran as soon as he saw me walk in!

The next day HIS BOSS flew from Ohio to Florida to resolve the issue.
The results were he lost his job and to this day his Boss just likes the heck out of me!

That Company has told EVERY Project Manager and Supervisor yelling at me is NOT ACCEPTABLE and will have a bad out come one way or the other!

I still do a lot of work all over the USA for them and am on the preferred list for demolition projects.
Most recent jobs coming up are in Kokomo, Indiana and Reno, Nevada.
:D

If an employee gets me to the point I feel I need to yell at him?
I end up with one less employee.


I love the 28 oz straight cawl waffle head. For those of us who still own this hammer.It is a classic work and combat hammer.

Well Jeff there's always an older man who think's your a threat or a younger man who think's your to old.

Otto Harkaman
09-30-21, 01:58 AM
I always admired the geologist hammer for getting serious meaning across

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-NC9LTw-IqC8/VF3dTEIC08I/AAAAAAAACEk/r1ETy7a523M/s1600/geological_hammer.jpg

Armistead
09-30-21, 09:47 PM
I don't care about people yelling at me, happens often when I drive my tractor into town or just on the road as cars stack up. I get the finger a lot, but I just pretend they're waving and I wave back. My wife yells at me a lot and I don't even hear it anymore. I find people that yell amusing and I look at them amused. Just don't touch me...

Arlo
09-30-21, 09:59 PM
Just don't touch me...

But touching your monkey ... that's another thing.

https://c.tenor.com/eLdXaIoFmmQAAAAd/snl-sprockets.gif

Aktungbby
09-30-21, 11:46 PM
I don't care about people yelling at me, happens often when I drive my tractor into town or just on the road as cars stack up. I get the finger a lot, but I just pretend they're waving and I wave back. My wife yells at me a lot and I don't even hear it anymore. I find people that yell amusing and I look at them amused. Just don't touch me...My wife of 41 years yells at me a lot too deservedly, especially when I'm not wearing my hearing aids. :oops: She gets her 66 yr.old locks tinted blond...I refer to her as Ol' Yeller...and run for the mancave!:timeout:

Armistead
10-01-21, 08:03 AM
My wife of 41 years yells at me a lot too deservedly, especially when I'm not wearing my hearing aids. :oops: She gets her 66 yr.old locks tinted blond...I refer to her as Ol' Yeller...and run for the mancave!:timeout:

I only got about 28 years into my deal and I still hear well so I have to wear ear buds bout half turned up.

August
10-01-21, 09:36 AM
It's probably safe to say that the pain of being yelled at certainly diminishes as ones hearing ability fades. There's a point in life that it goes from being an irritant to being a source of comedy. Few things are funnier than an angry ranter with his volume muted.

mapuc
10-01-21, 09:42 AM
A principal on a school here in Denmark have forbidden his teaches to yell. He has also forbidden them to give the student a scolding

Markus

Gorpet
10-03-21, 07:16 PM
I always admired the geologist hammer for getting serious meaning across

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-NC9LTw-IqC8/VF3dTEIC08I/AAAAAAAACEk/r1ETy7a523M/s1600/geological_hammer.jpg

The Estwing in any form,is the Hammer of professionals. The Chinese can only
duplicate what was a culture Icon.

Gorpet
10-03-21, 07:35 PM
I always admired the geologist hammer for getting serious meaning across

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-NC9LTw-IqC8/VF3dTEIC08I/AAAAAAAACEk/r1ETy7a523M/s1600/geological_hammer.jpg

Beautiful.

les green01
10-07-21, 11:30 PM
yelling at me or in my face not really a smart move times i got to watch myself when i turn cold and look at them and said your dead with the coldness they don't move when i'm talking coldness when the tempture changes 50 degrees has my buddy once told me when he experience it there was death in the air and it was coming from you

Arlo
10-07-21, 11:45 PM
yelling at me or in my face not really a smart move times i got to watch myself when i turn cold and look at them and said your dead with the coldness they don't move when i'm talking coldness when the tempture changes 50 degrees has my buddy once told me when he experience it there was death in the air and it was coming from you

Like ... wow ... man. :shucks:

em2nought
10-08-21, 02:27 AM
Like ... wow ... man. :shucks:


It's the same when an election is stolen. :03::D

Arlo
10-08-21, 08:12 AM
It's the same when an election is stolen. :03::D

If ... like .... ever, man. (Think you're in the wrong thread.) :shucks: