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GoldenRivet
08-21-16, 09:24 PM
So there I am in my Hotel in Whippany, New Jersey getting dressed to start my commute into the pit-of-dispair that is Jersey City when the phone rings. I answer it, it's my wife. She calmly informs me that she took my step daughter to the ER late last night because the dear child was doubled over in back pain so severe that she had to be carried to the car and susbeqently into said ER. Did she fall out of bed? Was she injured somehow? No. She's passing two large kidney stones and will be here at home passing them for a couple of days.

Time passes, as do the kidney stones. The second of which was like a jagged grain of rice. The pain, other than minor inflammation, should have stopped at this point.

The doctor advised that if the child is not pain free in 48 hours to come back to the ER.

I work through the weekend. Sunday night my wife calls again. The doctor recommended ER visit just occurred and the conclusion is that the ureter was blocked for long enough a period of time that urine backed up into the right side kidney causing a rather nasty infection. She was admitted to the hospital to undergo 2-3 days of antibiotic therapy.

Results were mixed. Fever spikes into the 104 range were frequent. But when not feverish she felt well enough to sit up and play games and watch TV. I called home for updates periodically.

Wednesday I'm pulling up to my second job of the day when my wife calls me. This time she's notably upset. The antibiotics aren't working, it's an antibiotic resistant infection, they have to move the child to a children's hospital about two hours away from our home town. Surgery is a real possibility.

There begins the logistics of finding a replacement to deploy to New Jersey to take my place, get him mobilized, and my own work schedule escalating to a frenzied pace so I can tie up the loose ends over the next day and a half. I work all day Thursday well into the early hours Friday. Get a few winks of sleep. Report to the office in Philadelphia where I turn in all my equipment and last minute paperwork before hitting the road for the long haul home.

finally I make it home to an 11 year old little girl and her mother both of whom are exhausted and filled with worry. The surgery, a rather simple, minimally invasive procedure called a Nephrostomy is on the books for this afternoon. Why surgery? The kidney infection caused the kidney to Become abscessed. A simple procedure... Meant to clean the abscess and accelerate the healing process. But when a mother is standing by her child's bedside with a looming surgical procedure on the schedule, there's no such thing as a simple procedure. the kid may as well be having a heart transplant.

We wait. Eventually we receive news that the surgeon and head radiologist have reviewed the images and rule out surgery stating that the images appear to show fluid build up but do not appear to be abscessed. Contributing to this off the cuff last minute determination is the fact that she is pain free, has been Fever free for 24 hours and her white cell count is dropping rapidly, nearly having returned to normal levels. If her kidney was abscessed, she would likely be in pain, feverish, with a high white cell count.

Much to everyone's relief the procedure is cancelled. The IV drip of antibiotics continues to do its job, having it checked hourly reduces the down time for rest, and interrupts her sleep. Adding to the experience of rest deprivation... The 6:30 am residency visits mean her hospital room is filled to capacity with fresh young doctors who eagerly follow the lead of the attending physician. Fortunately their visit is generally brief and to the point.

Tomorrow brings more blood work, more imaging, and hopefully a consensus between medical professionals as to whether or not surgery has been ruled out. Hopefully blood work reveals a normal white cell count and she makes it through tonight without a fever.

We continue to wait.

August
08-21-16, 09:46 PM
Sending positive vibes for your little girl GR.

Sailor Steve
08-21-16, 09:55 PM
Hoping for the best. :sunny:

HW3
08-21-16, 10:28 PM
Sending prayers for your daughter and the family too.

Torvald Von Mansee
08-21-16, 11:46 PM
Good luck.

Eichhörnchen
08-22-16, 01:38 AM
Good God, what an ordeal... I'll be watching and waiting now. All the very best to you all, GR.

mako88sb
08-22-16, 01:40 AM
Sounds like she's made a turn for the better. Thoughts and prayers that she'll be home soon.

I was talking to my brother-in-law's twin today and he went through the kidney stone agony just recently. Thankfully with no complications. First time for him and he had no idea what was going on. Ended up being transported by ambulance to the hospital. He said the damn thing looked like a fleck of dry paint. Hard to believe how much pain it caused.

Reece
08-22-16, 01:47 AM
What a horrible experience to go through!!:oops:
I pray that all goes well and your step daughter gets better soon.
All the best.:yep:

Catfish
08-22-16, 02:23 AM
Oh man! All the best, i hope she has no more pain and gets through this fast. I take it they have already broke those stones into little pieces, but even then this is always an ordeal with complications.

I heard (though i'm not a doctor or specialist) that drinking "hard" water leads to the build up of those stones, so if you or she is living in a region where the water comes from a carbonate-rich source, it might be a good idea to not use that in the future, but instead buy and use softer water. :hmmm:

Whatever, i hope she recovers, and fast.

Von Due
08-22-16, 02:32 AM
Speedy recovery to her and all the best to all of you.

u crank
08-22-16, 04:28 AM
Hoping for a good outcome and speedy recovery GR.

Oberon
08-22-16, 04:57 AM
Yowch, poor love, keeping you all in my thoughts and hoping for the best. Very unlucky for her to wind up with an antibiotic resistant infection, it's a real problem of our times, probably one of the bigger problems we're going to face in healthcare this century.
At least it seems that her body has managed to defeat the infection on its own but it's a major ordeal to go through, for someone of any age, let alone an eleven year old.

Rhodes
08-22-16, 05:13 AM
All the best and a speedy recovery!

Onkel Neal
08-22-16, 06:00 AM
Man, John, that's tough. Your job really makes that kind of emergency difficult, too. Hoping for the best.

Jimbuna
08-22-16, 06:07 AM
As I said on FB last week John, she'll be fine :sunny:

BrucePartington
08-22-16, 06:52 AM
The moment I read "doubled over in back pain so severe that she had to be carried to the car " I immediately thought "kidney stones". Now why did that instantly pop into my mind?
The pain is excruciating.
Here's hoping her ordeal is over soon.

Side note: after some research, I identified a chocolate bar late night snack the night before was the trigger in my case. I suggest you try to ascertain what she had been eating prior to this event, and consult with the doctors.
In my case, it's OK to take one byte, but definitely not an entire chocolate bar.

All the best.

Commander Wallace
08-22-16, 07:11 AM
This really has been a rough week for you. Thoughts and prayers to her and your family for a speedy recovery. In keeping with what Catfish said, Cranberry juice is supposed to have properties that lend themselves to maintenance of the kidneys. Check into it.

Fluoroquinolones are a wide spectrum anti biotic meaning they are used to treat a variety of urinary tract infections.

Trimethoprim is bacteriostatic in nature meaning it blocks functions within the bacteria to stop their growth and proliferation. In short, the bacteria is poisoned.

Co-trimoxazole is a sulfonamide antibiotic that is made up of two drugs, sulfamethoxazole and trimethoprim.

These can all have side effects in children ranging from vomiting, nausea, headaches, fatigue to dizziness.

I'm not sure if they have used these and usually with anti biotic resistant infections, a synthetic anti biotic is used. The problem is, too many doctors have over proscribed antibiotics without gram staining samples leading to strains that have now become resistant to antibiotics.

I hope this helps.

Best wishes for her recovery.

GoldenRivet
08-22-16, 09:16 AM
I appreciate all the kind words. Not sure if I'll be "off" the rest of the year and hate for this to be my first big post of the offseason.

She's pain free. Only ran about a 99.5 degree fever last night for about an hour.

My money is on getting out of here within the next 2-3 days.

Fingers crossed.

AVGWarhawk
08-22-16, 09:46 AM
Pain subsiding and fever is lower is always a great sign! Hoping for a complete quick recovery!

Osmium Steele
08-22-16, 12:58 PM
Hospital stays with your child are the worst. Glad she seems to be on the mend.

vienna
08-22-16, 01:40 PM
My best wishes for a quick and complete recovery for your daughter and an easing of the worries for you and yours. Just keep being a good dad and husband and stay by their side and she'll be fine...




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GoldenRivet
08-26-16, 03:51 PM
Just an update. i have returned home to clean house and catch up laundry and make all the preparations for my wife and stepdaughter to return here.

We anticipate discharge on Sunday pending results of CT scan. blood work has all returned to normal levels, some inflammatory markers remain but for the most part are rapidly trending in the right direction.

If the CT scan shows improvement she will be sent home Sunday. then we begin the process of building her strength back up and preparing her for heading back to school.

thanks for the kind words. almost out of the woods!:yeah:

eddie
08-26-16, 03:58 PM
Glad to hear she is doing better! I wish you all the best!

vienna
08-26-16, 04:22 PM
Very, very good news! Wishing you and yours all the best and a quick convalescence...




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Commander Wallace
08-26-16, 04:48 PM
It's great to hear she is doing so well. All the best to her and your family. :sunny:

Jimbuna
08-27-16, 05:20 AM
Onward and upward John :sunny:

GoldenRivet
08-28-16, 10:05 PM
Got the nephrostomy done this morning, she came through it fine and is in good spirits - mostly through chemistry :up:

coming out of anesthesia was a bear, at first she was confused and was afraid she had woken up before they did the procedure. then she was freaked out by the tubes coming out of her side and felt that her life was ruined because she would have to have these tubes forever. then she related to us that she was brought down to the "basement" of the hospital where she was "tortured" without mercy and that everyone was trying to kill her and that if she had to tear the tubes out and run away from the hospital she would do it right now. (of course she was far from capable of honoring such a threat)

eventually she calmed down and came to her senses and within an hour or so we had a calm, collected girl who presented an occasional smile.

not out of the woods, but i think the hardest part is behind us. after a few more days of recovery she may be sent home.

fingers crossed :yeah:

Jimbuna
08-29-16, 05:56 AM
:sunny::sunny::sunny::sunny::sunny:

Commander Wallace
08-29-16, 07:27 AM
Almost there. :up:

Onkel Neal
08-30-16, 02:26 AM
Got the nephrostomy done this morning, she came through it fine and is in good spirits - mostly through chemistry :up:

coming out of anesthesia was a bear, at first she was confused and was afraid she had woken up before they did the procedure. then she was freaked out by the tubes coming out of her side and felt that her life was ruined because she would have to have these tubes forever. then she related to us that she was brought down to the "basement" of the hospital where she was "tortured" without mercy and that everyone was trying to kill her and that if she had to tear the tubes out and run away from the hospital she would do it right now. (of course she was far from capable of honoring such a threat)

eventually she calmed down and came to her senses and within an hour or so we had a calm, collected girl who presented an occasional smile.

not out of the woods, but i think the hardest part is behind us. after a few more days of recovery she may be sent home.

fingers crossed :yeah:

How was the last night, is her condition improving?

Anesthesia can have some strange affects, I have a friend who had a procedure and afterwards he swears the nurses kept taking away his blankets and subjecting him to freezing cold temperatures... even days later he was absolutely convinced this had happened and was planning write a series of letters complaining about his ill treatment.

Reece
08-30-16, 04:06 AM
fingers crossed :yeah:
. . . and a few prayers!!:yep:

Good news!:up:

GoldenRivet
09-03-16, 12:13 AM
Well, i dont think i will be updating this thread anymore past this point. The young lady was released from the hospital around 9:30 PM Texas time on 9/2

she will have a home visiting nurse come by daily for her antibiotics therapy which must be administered through her PICC line (https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/f1/Blausen_0193_Catheter_PICC.png) - which, oddly enough she claims that she can simultaneously taste and smell whatever is administered through it :hmm2: Nurse said that is not uncommon an experience. fascinating

next week we have a follow up CT scan to show how much the swelling has changed, but for the most part, she has been through quite a storm and found her way back to home port.

thanks again for all the kind words, prayers, finger crossings and support! :salute:

Reece
09-03-16, 12:32 AM
Home is always good therapy, hopefully she is fast on the mend!:yep:

Commander Wallace
09-03-16, 12:47 AM
Home is always good therapy, hopefully she is fast on the mend!:yep:

Great news. :yeah:

I'm sure she was thrilled beyond words to get back home. All the best in her recovery. Hopefully she and the rest of your family can get back to your normal routines.

u crank
09-03-16, 05:58 AM
So glad to hear the positive outcome. :salute:

Jimbuna
09-03-16, 01:08 PM
Good to know John :sunny:but the burning question is....did you give her the crayons and colouring book back? :03:

fireftr18
09-03-16, 09:07 PM
Glad to hear the good news. Take good care of her.

GoldenRivet
09-06-16, 01:44 AM
Good to know John :sunny:but the burning question is....did you give her the crayons and colouring book back? :03:

:D that and a stack of them to take home.

Jimbuna
09-06-16, 08:11 AM
:D that and a stack of them to take home.

Good lad :03: