Violent Women

[Eichhörnchen]

As a teenager, I once got my face slapped after two timing a girlfriend. Later, the jilted Party reappeared as I walked out with my new love, and I was suddenly subjected to the spectacle of the two of them brawling on the ground.

More recently, I learned that my wife's sister-in-law tore a door off its hinges during a disagreement at home.

Have you ever witnessed violent women?

[AVGWarhawk]

Well, the two timing slap was probably well deserved. We will not go there.

Your wife's SIL is ready for MMA if she is ripping off doors complete with hardware that once held it to the frame.

But yes, I have seen my SIL full fist my BIL in the face before.

[STEED]

my wife's sister-in-law tore a door off its hinges during a disagreement at home.



Is she for hire?

Is she up to slapping a few drunks around here with a door?

[Eichhörnchen]

Well, the two timing slap was probably well deserved.

It was indeed richly deserved :D

A year or so before that, I got dumped by my very first girlfriend, whose friend then beat her up because she disagreed with the decision.

[Mr Quatro]

I bet it wasn't these two women, uh?

http://teakdoor.com/Gallery/albums/userpics/10004/mma_pound_for_pound.jpg

[STEED]

https://cdn-img-0.wanelo.com/p/404/ea4/8d9/b8916a9842aab175fe6b053/x354-q80.jpg
Eichhörnchen all set for the weekend.


Don't forget to post pics. :03:

[Commander Wallace]

I think most men can handle women being Irate with something we did or didn't do. On the other hand if you have a wife named Lorena Bobbitt, that raises being Irate to a whole new level. :o

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt


On the plus side, I understand Martha Stewart has released a cutlery / culinary knife set endorsed by Lorena Bobbitt herself. :D


On a serious note, domestic abuse continues to be a major problem.

[THEBERBSTER]

Hi Eichhörnchen

I did'nt know you knew my wife.:)

Peter

[AVGWarhawk]

It was indeed richly deserved :D

A year or so before that, I got dumped by my very first girlfriend, whose friend then beat her up because she disagreed with the decision.


I would then think her friend liked you very much and wanted more than just a friendship and punch to the nose.:hmmm: Might have been a good idea to ask the friend out. And, if you played your cards right a tag team match with three of your could have been a possibility. Oh the opportunity missed!!!

[Eichhörnchen]

You wouldn't say that if you'd seen her friend: she was a biker, and I could've expected broken arms and some ribs too, if I managed to upset her...

[AVGWarhawk]

You wouldn't say that if you'd seen her friend: she was a biker, and I could've expected broken arms and some ribs too, if I managed to upset her...


Well, some guys like that. So I heard....:D

[kraznyi_oktjabr]

Have you ever witnessed violent women?Yes. I was unfortunate enough to end up into relationship with one. I learned during our short relationship that she had some kind of mental health issues, neglected her medication (not directly related to mental health) and had quite severe troubles in controlling her emotions. She was also very good in apologizing and saying "sorry" although I nowadays doubt if any of it was truly honest.

Our relationship ended when she in her fit of anger hit me several times into head. I only got mild brain injury and had to spend three days in hospital but in mental side it still haunts me. It happened years ago but I still sometimes wake up feeling the pain in head, anxiety and terror.

[Nippelspanner]

I was in a relationship with a girl once, a little older than me, quite intelligent and educated... and manipulative as hell.
Anyways, she wasn't violent in the physical way, but she made me throw away whatever I believed in, every principle I ever had and somehow totally took control over me and my life... so basically I was in a relationship with a woman. :D

[GoldenRivet]

Women, as my wife will attest, are creatures who are governed not by logic and reason, but by emotion alone. They are prone to making impulsive and irrational decisions based on those emotions, and often this leads to a heated physical or verbal altercation irregardless of the social setting.

Some women are more reserved and others are more brash in this behavior, but it is my conclusion that they are all unable to control their emotional whims. In other words, they all have a line of emotional outburst that they can cross, but the distance to this line - while short for all of them - is longer for some than others.

My ex-girlfriend who i dated for the later part of 2011 and first part of 2012 was especially prone to fits of emotional outburst.

these emotional outbursts of violence would sometimes be physical, other times mental/emotional - and other times simply a threat of physical violence which would not be acted upon

for example

this woman twice claimed pregnancy, falsely, and later admitted that it was a ploy to gain a foothold in a bad situation or to force my hand at allowing her back into my life

this woman, while i was out of state, once threatened to enter my home with the objective of destroying my personal belongings (specifically ripping up my leather furniture, smashing my big screen TV, beating my computer to pieces, and ultimately burning down the residence) fortunately, i had the locks changed by a friend and this never happened

this woman has on at least 3 occasions taken to hitting herself with an object or her bare hands, then threatening to call the police and tell them that i was the one responsible for the marks on her skin. (i shudder to think of the number of men who are saddled with domestic violence charges - when they have in fact never laid a hand on a woman)

additionally, she would show no shame in having a disagreement in the middle of crowded public settings and on a hand full of occasions left the restaurant table and set off walking down the road, forcing me to climb into my truck to go and try to find her. Mind you, this took place in cities and towns 700+ miles removed from our family and friends.

other examples...

In high school, my sister, who was 15 and had no driver's license, kicked out the windshield of my car because i refused to take her to school an hour early so she could hang out with a boy.

a girl i dated in college had the favored method of approach of throwing a container of fluid, such as a large movie theater soda at her target. Occasionally the target being me, other times it was someone else, ultimately the target got to spend the evening covered in Coca Cola or Tea or some other beverage.

I have known women to punch and kick holes in drywall and hallow core doors, kick cars, key them, rip vinyl decals off cars etc

I knew a man who dated a young lady that during a mild argument she would become so embroiled that she would become enraged to the point that he had to restrain her physically and call her mother or father to beg for help in calming her down or to assist in removing her from his home.

countless times, in public, i have observed women who are at odds over a traffic situation or a parking space etc get into such a heated debate that their disturbance physically stopped people so they could watch the drama unfold.

on one occasion, i knew a young man who's girlfriend took his car during an argument and crashed it into a tree. it was never determined whether this was accidental or was done intentionally. the damage was minor fortunately, but it was damaged nonetheless.

In high school, i had a girlfriend who i had broken up with, who slapped me across the face in the middle of a crowded hallway because i refused to re-enter a relationship with her.

the number of occasions i have witnessed a woman destroying another person's property, slapping or hitting someone else, throwing things at them etc is astonishingly higher than the number of times i have seen a man do those things.

come to think of it... i have never personally seen a man do any of those things to a woman... i have always heard of it second hand.

I will say that there is an enormous double standard in the ways that men and women interact with one another. and im sure there have been a lot of men out there who have been punished by the legal system for domestic violence when no such physical violence ever took place to start with

[Skybird]

One reads a lot about husbands beating or abusing their wives. One almost never reads about women beating or raping men. Statistics we were shown in the 90s in psychology courses at university showed that there were more incidents of wives beating husbands in several Western countries, than the other way around.

But this does not suit well the radical feminists' agenda. Accoridng to them its always the men having to be called "perpetrator", and the victim is always women, girls. Females have a monopole for beign victims, accoriding to these sexist ideologists.

That it does not coincides with male self-understanding that males get beaten or raped by females, also helps to cover this "news". Old news in fact.

There might be an explanation to this apparently greater male passivity than usually is attributed to the "strong sex". This is that males have a signfiicantly higher risk for disease of the heart and cardio-vascular system. In marriages, husbands tend to evade conflict, or fall silent when the she-wolf wants to endlessly discuss an issue or theme angering them. For males, this withdrawel may have life-extending effects, keeping blood pressure down. Think of it as a mechanism of self-protection: inner withdrawel. Logically, wife then complaisn about the hubby not endlessly debating his inner feeling, emotions, and that he does not talk to her.

No, I'm not kidding you.

For the record, since I attack feminism usually: I am for equality of men and women before the law. Nothing more and nothing less. Its the only understanding of male-female-related "equality" that makes sense to me. Everythiong else, this whole modern crappy "gender"-pseudo-science, is ideology-driven nonsense - sexist, brutal egoism pushed by a strong feminist lobby.

[Schroeder]

I was in a relationship with a girl once, a little older than me, quite intelligent and educated... and manipulative as f... wow I nearly wrote that one out.
Anyways, she wasn't violent in the physical way, but she made me throw away whatever I believed in, every principle I ever had and somehow totally took control over me and my life... so basically I was in a relationship with a woman. :D
Why is that infraction worthy? :doh:

[Nippelspanner]

Why is that infraction worthy? :doh:
Subsim logic.
Rules are rules though, my bad.

[Cybermat47]

Probably the most well-known case of a woman abusing a man came out just recently: http://youtu.be/VZ27W2K12fk

It's pretty much confirmed that the abuser in question was a woman named Nicole Arbour.

The above video has caused several other prominent YouTubers to come out with their abuse stories.

[Sailor Steve]

Why is that infraction worthy? :doh:
We want a forum that is safe for a child to read. This includes any attempt to sneak prohibited language past the autobot, including substituting figures, asterisks and dots for missing letters. If it would cause a young child to ask "what does that mean", then don't use it.
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_new_faq_item_language

I would have edited the post, but I wasn't sure how without ruining it, and I didn't want to delete it because it is otherwise a good post.

[Eichhörnchen]

This is a link to an earlier thread which developed along similar lines:

http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showpost.php?p=2239101&postcount=1

[Nippelspanner]

I would have edited the post, but I wasn't sure how without ruining it.
I altered my masterpiece accordingly.
It isn't the same anymore, the magic is all gone but well ... the things I do for Subsim.

[Jimbuna]

Almost feel like I could write a book on the subject, based on professional real life experiences.

Always felt more at ease dealing with a male rather than a female and I do recall the female was more likely to use some sort of an object/instrument to assist them in their efforts.

[GoldenRivet]

Almost feel like I could write a book on the subject, based on professional real life experiences.

Always felt more at ease dealing with a male rather than a female and I do recall the female was more likely to use some sort of an object/instrument to assist them in their efforts.

you're absolutely correct.

they like to use tools to assist them in their efforts, i have noticed they are particularly fond of things they can swing at you or more often throw at you

:rotfl2:

[AVGWarhawk]

Almost feel like I could write a book on the subject, based on professional real life experiences.

Always felt more at ease dealing with a male rather than a female and I do recall the female was more likely to use some sort of an object/instrument to assist them in their efforts.

I do recall from my criminal justice classes that often a domestic dispute the female will sometimes attack officers when the husband/boyfriend are being put into custody.

[Aktungbby]

Almost feel like I could write a book on the subject, based on professional real life experiences.

Always felt more at ease dealing with a male rather than a female and I do recall the female was more likely to use some sort of an object/instrument to assist them in their efforts.:sign_yeah: U show up at an on-base domestic disturbance: HE: fingernail gouge wounds from the eye sockets to the collar bones...SHE: at least one black eye, possibly bleeding lips, loose teeth; both under age 25- subsidized housing, always four upset kids, all under age six watching...Injuries not fatal?: mutual combat declared; screeching notwithstanding-two sides to every conflict; B impartial: 'do not distress the kids further with handcuffs to either parent'....Either one with the wallet holding the family's only $300- limit credit-card goes to the local Motel 6 NOW! (breathing space and cool-down for all combatants) or it's Captain's Mast and loss of job-dishonorable discharge, home and income in the AM if I file a formal report...(firsttime offenders only):shifty: In the San Francisco/Oakland 'hood' subsidized housing, where I tended not to blend in, it was considerably worse. And I hate Rat Tail Combs at close quarters:03: and no options: they ain't got no credit card! http://demandware.edgesuite.net/sits_pod21/dw/image/v2/AABJ_PRD/on/demandware.static/-/Sites-SBS-SallyBeautySupply/default/dwfeb27ea9/images/large/SBS-487306.jpg?sw=345&sh=345&sm=fit&sfrm=png

[Buddahaid]

Yes. I was unfortunate enough to end up into relationship with one. I learned during our short relationship that she had some kind of mental health issues, neglected her medication (not directly related to mental health) and had quite severe troubles in controlling her emotions. She was also very good in apologizing and saying "sorry" although I nowadays doubt if any of it was truly honest.

Our relationship ended when she in her fit of anger hit me several times into head. I only got mild brain injury and had to spend three days in hospital but in mental side it still haunts me. It happened years ago but I still sometimes wake up feeling the pain in head, anxiety and terror.

And it was still your fault.....

[Wolferz]

Was highly prone to using violence to get her way or get her point across with exclamation.
She would start arguments over long past issues and punctuate it with a fist to my chest. My response? "Did you hurt your hand?" :haha:
Saw her give one of her friends a sound thrashing over not paying the friend $20.00 she owed the girl. The girl started it and I just watched. The friend then spent more money to send a group of thugs to my home to collect. They took the debt out of my tires. All four of them, punctured and flattened into uselessness. :-?
That woman deserved to be beaten to a pulp on too many occasions but, thankfully, my mother taught me better than to raise my fists in anger with a female of any stripe. Considering how the courts treat physical altercations between men and women these days, it's best to just bite your lip and walk away.
I had an aunt who was married to a rather small fellow and I've witnessed her chase him down sit on him and beat him bloody for a half hour.:o

[AVGWarhawk]

I had an aunt who was married to a rather small fellow and I've witnessed her chase him down sit on him and beat him bloody for a half hour.:o

Well, next time he will not get into her Gin. :nope:

[Reece]

Well, some guys like that. So I heard....:D
:haha: Not me, that's for sure!!:oops:

[fireftr18]

Jim, GR, Warhawk, Aktung, I'm there with all of you. Too much of it over the years.

[MaDef]

you're absolutely correct.

they like to use tools to assist them in their efforts, i have noticed they are particularly fond of things they can swing at you or more often throw at you

:rotfl2:That's why I bought the wife a 16" cast iron skillet to do most of her cooking in, she can barely lift it, let alone swing it. ;)

[Eichhörnchen]

Jim, GR, Warhawk, Aktung, I'm there with all of you. Too much of it over the years.

Aside from that slapped face, so far I've only witnessed girl-on-girl

[Jimbuna]

I do recall from my criminal justice classes that often a domestic dispute the female will sometimes attack officers when the husband/boyfriend are being put into custody.

Rgr that and a quick example.

Called to attend a house disturbance late one evening. On arrival at the front door (lower half timber, upper half glass 'totally smashed in'). No response to repeated knocking and announcing loudly who we were (my partner and I), heard screams so forced an entry and on climbing the stairs viewed an adult male and female in the kitchen. The female who was quite emotional and upset was wearing a nightdress that was tattered and torn and the male was holding a 10" blade carving knife in his left hand but not displaying any aggression or obvious intent on using it.

Went into 'broken record' routine "Put the knife down before anyone gets seriously hurt."

Male looked as if he was willing to cooperate so took a step toward him and in an instant the female attacked my partner shortly followed by the male who started to raise the knife but not necessarily in a threatening manner.

What ensued was a little ugly but the main point being nobody suffered further injury.