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GoldenRivet
08-25-09, 01:54 PM
... Posting in political threads in any large scale.

First and foremost, this post comes in response to nothing which has occurred here at subsim... only as a result of the realization that i am very passionate in many areas of life and politics ranks high on the list. However, discussing politics can bring out the best in me, but more often than not discussing politics has brought out the worst in me on a few occasions.

if i make one thing clear in this post, let it be this statement right here...

I value the friendships, and the community at subsim and my inclusion into the community far too much to risk ruining any of it just so that i can interject my (often useless) opinion into some (often useless) politically charged thread.

Secondly...

There will always be an "us" and a "them".

politically this is almost always universally the case.

"us" and "them" will almost never see eye to eye on virtually any issue.

discussions between "us" and "them" almost always deteriorate into someone being compared to Hitler, or some off hand insults being flung about, or "us" talking about how stupid "them" is for having such a ridiculous opinion... and its just not worth it to me.

No matter how much "us" and "them" sit down to a discussion or a debate... though both sides might put out very convincing material, neither side will ever be swayed to the other's point of view.

the simple way of looking at politics in America particularly is that... this nation belongs to "Us" for 4 to 8 years... and then it belongs to "them" for 4 to 8 years. sometimes longer... sometimes shorter... but in the end thats the way it looks to me.

its all multiple sides to one massive ongoing argument, one ongoing struggle, one ongoing gripe fest about who is right and who is wrong and there is enough strife, confusion and anger in life for me to continue giving a damn about any of this political nonsense.

I will continue to discuss these issues in private with others, or even publicly with others, but not here at subsim.

i owe far too much respect to - what i have called before - my "brethren" here at subsim to risk my rational thought processes being overruled by passionate opinion - and some slip up, or some remark, or some statement causing malice between myself and the other memebers here.

i value all here as assets to the community and as friends, and i have done nothing to keep my identity secret... some have met me, some know how to contact me directly within seconds on my private phone number or e mail... i have made NO attempt to hide behind the mask of a screen name or online pseudonym.

anyone who has read my past posts knows how i feel, some agree with me entirely, some slightly.... others disagree with me on some issues... others have probably screamed at their monitors in anger or frustration :haha:

but to that i say... no more for me.

one does not get to pick and chose the time and place and method of his ending... life is way too fu**in short to be worrying about what some "liberal" or what some "faux news worshipper" half a world away thinks about the price of rice in China.

people piss and moan, and the world... she just turns.

SteamWake
08-25-09, 01:59 PM
Nope nothing is going to be solved in a forum.

Just dont let up in your real life, these issues are important to us all.

mookiemookie
08-25-09, 01:59 PM
You're right. We can sit here and try and prove a point or shout the other person down, or land the rhetorical knockout blow, but it boils down to the fact that no one's really going to change their mind, and no problems will actually be solved.

I respect your decision, even though we (often!) disagree. :up:

sharkbit
08-25-09, 01:59 PM
You know what they say:
Never discuss religion or politics at a dinner party.

That should probably include internet forums as well. :D

:)

PeriscopeDepth
08-25-09, 02:01 PM
Political threads ARE a silly place.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a55hIGmMzuE

PD

Aramike
08-25-09, 02:04 PM
I for one enjoy contentious political conversation and see nothing wrong with it. In my personal and professional life I engage in it often. In fact, I'd say half of my friends are liberals, half are conservatives. We may all debate and argue, but when its over we're still friends.

The problems only arise when people debate things and can't get past it after all's been said and done. But the problem isn't the debate ... its the person.

And really, who wants to be around someone who demands that everyone only see it their way, anyway? Hell with them, I say.

PeriscopeDepth
08-25-09, 02:05 PM
I for one enjoy contentious political conversation and see nothing wrong with it. In my personal and professional life I engage in it often. In fact, I'd say half of my friends are liberals, half are conservatives. We may all debate and argue, but when its over we're still friends.

The problems only arise when people debate things and can't get past it after all's been said and done. But the problem isn't the debate ... its the person.
The problem is the faceless Interwebs brings this out a lot more in people. People say things and act in ways they NEVER would in a face to face discussion. IMO.

PD

GoldenRivet
08-25-09, 02:09 PM
The problem is the faceless Interwebs brings this out a lot more in people. People say things and act in ways they NEVER would in a face to face discussion. IMO.

PD

This is my point exactly, and part of my purpose of this post is to "self regulate" the possibility of a.... personality explosion.:haha:

PeriscopeDepth
08-25-09, 02:11 PM
This is my point exactly, and part of my purpose of this post is to "self regulate" the possibility of a.... personality explosion.:haha:
And a wise, honourable thing to do sir. :salute:

Plenty of other more fun/productive ways to waste ones time on a computer/Internets.

PD

Aramike
08-25-09, 02:15 PM
The problem is the faceless Interwebs brings this out a lot more in people. People say things and act in ways they NEVER would in a face to face discussion. IMO.

PDHeh, most people here are pretty good about it. The bottom line is that if someone steps too far out of line, the mods should step in.

I respect your decision to stay out of it, though ... just sayin'.

ETR3(SS)
08-25-09, 02:34 PM
It takes a very wise and big man to say when. I'm glad to have you at the forums.

Oberon
08-25-09, 02:55 PM
Political threads = http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQFKtI6gn9Y

MothBalls
08-26-09, 02:09 AM
You're right. We can sit here and try and prove a point or shout the other person down, or land the rhetorical knockout blow, but it boils down to the fact that no one's really going to change their mind, and no problems will actually be solved.

Don't know if I agree with that. In order to form an intelligent opinion you need to open your mind to all points of view. I've changed my mind on issues because of things I read, having other people point out things I didn't think of. I wouldn't say a forum is a good place to gather facts, but it could point you in the right direction to get the information you need.

"A closed mind gathers no intelligence"

I think debate is healthy. A forum is just a convenient place to do it. However, still trying to figure out what taxes, health care, and religion have to do with submarines...... :hmmm:

Takeda Shingen
08-26-09, 07:36 AM
Don't know if I agree with that. In order to form an intelligent opinion you need to open your mind to all points of view. I've changed my mind on issues because of things I read, having other people point out things I didn't think of. I wouldn't say a forum is a good place to gather facts, but it could point you in the right direction to get the information you need.

"A closed mind gathers no intelligence"

I think debate is healthy. A forum is just a convenient place to do it. However, still trying to figure out what taxes, health care, and religion have to do with submarines...... :hmmm:

I've read these forums for nine years and have never seen anyone have his mind changed because of discourse. As I have said repeatedly, political discourse on the internet is as toxic as it is futile. Some have greater resistance than others, but it will eventually get to you.

A wise decision, GoldenRivet.

Jimbuna
08-26-09, 11:23 AM
Well put GR :up:

Don't vote it only encourages them....besides, opinions are like ar$eholes, everybody has one :DL

sharkbit
08-26-09, 12:41 PM
....besides, opinions are like ar$eholes, everybody has one :DL

And they usually stink.

:)

FIREWALL
08-26-09, 12:49 PM
:up: GR

geetrue
08-26-09, 01:35 PM
Your alright GR ... I don't care what Obama said about your posts :O:

Just consider this as a message board that others visit and read your thoughts.
The thoughts that you allow us to have are the ones you share with us.

After a period of time we know which way you lean and we know how to flow with or against the thoughts.

Many toxic threads here for sure, but just chose your arena better.

Don't give up your passion which is basically your soul ... just learn to flow.

We still care what you think ... how could we debate each other if we didn't know what you think?

So reconsider your flight plan and make your final approach.

Have a safe landing :up:

August
08-26-09, 02:29 PM
While I agree that nobodys political opinions on the forum have been changed, I find that debating them here does sharpen my arguments in face to face discussions.

Jimbuna
08-26-09, 04:27 PM
While I agree that nobodys political opinions on the forum have been changed, I find that debating them here does sharpen my arguments in face to face discussions.


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GoldenRivet
08-26-09, 04:48 PM
Your alright GR ... I don't care what Obama said about your posts :O:

Just consider this as a message board that others visit and read your thoughts.
The thoughts that you allow us to have are the ones you share with us.

After a period of time we know which way you lean and we know how to flow with or against the thoughts.

Many toxic threads here for sure, but just chose your arena better.

Don't give up your passion which is basically your soul ... just learn to flow.

We still care what you think ... how could we debate each other if we didn't know what you think?

So reconsider your flight plan and make your final approach.

Have a safe landing :up:

Well as i stated, i will no longer make posts of any drawn out nature in politically charged threads here at subsmim. (at the office, or the bar is a different matter)

not because i dont have an opinion

not because it may or may not be a "losing argument"

but, because i can get very "stirred" with certain political discussions sometimes, and i consider everyone here to be a friend... i dont want to say something that would either A. damage a friendship or B. jeopardize my membership. (especially B :har: )

Blacklight
08-26-09, 07:22 PM
This is the reason I don't usually post or even read most posts in the "General" area. I'm VERY liberal and there's only so much "Pro-Conservative" and "Liberal" bashing that I can take before it annoys me and considering the fact that it seems that the majority of the people here are hardline conservatives, I'll never be able to post an opinion on anything political without getting dogpiled by passionate conservatives (and nomatter WHAT evidence I would post supporting my arguments would never convince them to change their opinions anyway)
I'm really easy going, respect other people's opinions, and don't usually block anyone but I've actually blocked certain individuals here because of their constant anti-liberal, and anti-aithieism posts.

mookiemookie
08-26-09, 08:53 PM
This is the reason I don't usually post or even read most posts in the "General" area. I'm VERY liberal and there's only so much "Pro-Conservative" and "Liberal" bashing that I can take before it annoys me and considering the fact that it seems that the majority of the people here are hardline conservatives, I'll never be able to post an opinion on anything political without getting dogpiled by passionate conservatives (and nomatter WHAT evidence I would post supporting my arguments would never convince them to change their opinions anyway)
I'm really easy going, respect other people's opinions, and don't usually block anyone but I've actually blocked certain individuals here because of their constant anti-liberal, and anti-aithieism posts.

We are the persecuted minority here, but you just have to let it roll of your back. Besides, if you let it turn into a conservative echo chamber, they get complacent. You gotta throw something in there to jog their critical thinking skills. :03:

Takeda Shingen
08-27-09, 06:13 AM
We are the persecuted minority here, but you just have to let it roll of your back. Besides, if you let it turn into a conservative echo chamber, they get complacent. You gotta throw something in there to jog their critical thinking skills. :03:

This is very interesting to me. From what I gather from certain elements of the right-leaning crowd, they feel that they are the persecuted minority. As someone who has no real allegiance to right or left, it seems that the sides are balanced in terms of numbers. From what I have seen, it is usually the same 3-5 people on the right vs. the same 3-5 on the left.

August
08-27-09, 07:20 AM
This is very interesting to me. From what I gather from certain elements of the right-leaning crowd, they feel that they are the persecuted minority. As someone who has no real allegiance to right or left, it seems that the sides are balanced in terms of numbers. From what I have seen, it is usually the same 3-5 people on the right vs. the same 3-5 on the left.

Shhh, he's going for the sympathy vote! :DL

Frame57
08-27-09, 09:41 AM
Don't know if I agree with that. In order to form an intelligent opinion you need to open your mind to all points of view. I've changed my mind on issues because of things I read, having other people point out things I didn't think of. I wouldn't say a forum is a good place to gather facts, but it could point you in the right direction to get the information you need.

"A closed mind gathers no intelligence"

I think debate is healthy. A forum is just a convenient place to do it. However, still trying to figure out what taxes, health care, and religion have to do with submarines...... :hmmm: Agreed 100%:salute:

mookiemookie
08-27-09, 11:15 AM
Shhh, he's going for the sympathy vote! :DL

No, no, I was playing the victim card. :03: