Skybird
03-13-09, 06:59 AM
http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/0,1518,612996,00.html
I didn't make myself any friends when saying in the past to my former friends and colleagues that in psychology there is too much babbling, and that the dogma of always actively pulling things into the light instead of letting them come to a rest, and always actively talk about losses and suffering, maybe isn't half as useful as this dogma of psychology demands it's believers to assume. I could borrow from something a person once put into words for me: "Pädagogik ist die Kunst des Beschwatzens". I think the same could be said about much of psychology. And regarding "the meaning to be understood in a loss" the essay shortly mentions - the meaning is what people make of it and give to it. In most cases it has no existence of it's own that just needs to be revealed or objectively discovered, but is a work of subjective fiction. so leave mourning people their imgaination, if they show to have any. It may be part of the overall recipe for a remedy nature has intended.
I didn't make myself any friends when saying in the past to my former friends and colleagues that in psychology there is too much babbling, and that the dogma of always actively pulling things into the light instead of letting them come to a rest, and always actively talk about losses and suffering, maybe isn't half as useful as this dogma of psychology demands it's believers to assume. I could borrow from something a person once put into words for me: "Pädagogik ist die Kunst des Beschwatzens". I think the same could be said about much of psychology. And regarding "the meaning to be understood in a loss" the essay shortly mentions - the meaning is what people make of it and give to it. In most cases it has no existence of it's own that just needs to be revealed or objectively discovered, but is a work of subjective fiction. so leave mourning people their imgaination, if they show to have any. It may be part of the overall recipe for a remedy nature has intended.