Check out some of Aces work, he made a bunch of mods compatible, including what you mention above. Also be sure to have the 4gig Patch activated for this as it is more taxing on your system.
The below from here:
Aces
LifeBoats&Debris_v4
GWX_DFa-Flag&Pens_2010
FM30_UpDown_final
FM_NewInterior_V1.0
Conning Tower open Hatch TestFMfood
Depthcharge Shake v2.01
Urfischs_ModStrike_Beta1
Waterstream+Exhaust Combi V2.3 for GWX3
Materials file for Aces' multi-mod v1.3
Aces' Multimod compatability fix release v1.3 public beta