@iambecomelife,
Sorry to hear of the family member and the ransom wear attack, that alone would have knocked me sick and I might not have carried on but you did, so you have mt greatest respect.
As for you job with long hours, well pack that in and get working on this project.
I'm just kidding, I too used to work long hours and after I got home I just wanted to chill so to start working on something that is time consuming would be another chore.
Col.