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Originally Posted by Eichhornchen

Buy her something you really want yourself for Christmas... except she already thought of it and did it to ME!

Among some things I did actually want came a plaque with a Santa face on it. Instead of asking: "What in God's name did you give me this for?" I smiled sweetly and thanked her. I've a good mind to put it on the front of the car and say that since it's mine I can do whatever the hell I want with it...

You need help! you're a passive aggressive possibly of the "circuitous subcategory "Opposition displayed in a roundabout, labyrinthine, and ambiguous manner, e.g., procrastination, dawdling, forgetfulness, inefficiency, neglect, stubbornness, indirect and devious in venting resentment and resistant behaviors." It's also a facet of 'Minnesota Nice'! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minnesota_nice More of a Jungian than a Freudian thing.